I've only had a handful of first dates. Generally anything is game. I'd think we'd go to a movie or dinner just us to get to know each other. Yes going in groups makes it less stressful, but you don't get to know the other one quite as well I feel. How the night ends is entirely up to how the evening went and what you want to do, not what I want to do, although i'll probably let you know what I want to do, and no worries, I don't plan to have sex even within the first few dates or even close to that and I never have before, but if its something that happens, it happens.