if i could describe myself in one word it would be "catch" (said quietly and in a humble tone)
fortunately they give me room for more than one word, so i will provide some additional facts about myself that will hopefully make you think "yeah, this guy seems alright, lets give him a chance, since my eyes are bleeding from seeing about a thousand pictures of dudes with their shirts off."
I can only say that if you are ever lucky enough to see me with my shirt off you will remember back to the time you wrote me a msg on this site, and you will thank your good sense in having made such a fortuitous (lucky/unexpected) decision.
are you still reading?...excellent.
where do i get off calling myself a catch? allow me to elaborate
#1: Im real!...real in the sense that i know who i am and am very comfortable in my own skin.
#2: Im confident, but not in a**** or aggressive way, its more like i feel i have been empowered with everything i need to make what i want of myself in this world.
#3: Im a romantic. i love the anticipation, and excitement that make a new relationship so vibrant, and enjoy constantly keeping that feeling alive with simple gestures that make all the difference
okay....i think thats it
no...just kidding, thats not all! i just got bored of making a bullet style list of my attributes....i guess that means my fourth point should have been
#4: easily bored....but thats not true, and even if it were, its not the worst thing in the world...it means i can be quite exciting to be around....and hating bullet style lists isn't really a bad thing either...in fact, may i just say now, if you are a beautiful angel, full of life, love, compassion and caring, but run your life off of a carefully crafted list...do us both a favour and resist the compulsion to make me yours...it simply will not work!
spontaneity!!!....one of my favourite traits...will now lead me to change the topic to that of the girl i would like as opposed to talking about myself much more.
i find intelligence and humour to be incredibly attractive in a woman, confidence is a must as well....a girl who loves to dance and laugh and play with me in this giant sandbox called planet earth....im definitely not into girls who play the role of a girl as presented to them by mainstream media....its okoay to browse through US weekly when your waiting at the dentist (you have all your teeth right?), but using celebrity fodder as a topic of conversation is probably going to drive me up the wall even though i work in film and one might think i care what the kardashians are up to...the sad truth is, i dont!
i love girls that are well read...thats sexy...seriously it is
i know im not supposed to bring up politics, but here i go...breaking rules like i dont give a what what!
I'm just gonna come out and say im kind of a liberal...if you find that your views match those of some of our republican friends to the south on just about anything...we might have a good debate, but we probably wont end up having a nice candlelit dinner together...
i like someone that loves to do activities, and is always up for trying new things...new food (i love to cook)
new adventures, new music...oh yeah musics a good one
im into lots of different styles of music
electronic: (chilling like ian pooley or morcheeba...and dirty bass...carl cox, steve aoki, deadmau5)
raggae: (original marley and sista nancy to damian marley and buju banton)
rock: (m83, tokyo police club, the dudes, hot hot heat, the shins)
i gotta stop...cause theres just too much and its hurting my poor little brain
i would love to meet a girl whos got wicked taste in music
if you like going to music festivals...then we are going to have alot of fun together
i love sasquatch...pemberton was amazing, even the jazz and folk fest are great...this year im hoping to do burning man...but missed out on the ticket lottery
im guessing by this point there has been a 90% dropoff rate in anyone reading this, so if you still are, it makes me very happy because it means you are very patient, and you might even have a sense of humour that we can share.....that is of course such an important feature for the girl i want to meet. funny, spontaneous, and beautiful....surely this is asking quite a bit...
in return i give you a caring, kind, and intelligent young man who is easy on the eyes as im sure youve already noticed....i mean, youve come this far havent you?!, someone who has traveled much, and yearns to travel more. someone who has grown up, and doesnt need to have their hand held....except i actually like holding hands...but i think you get what i mean :) someone with a sense of adventure, im not a t.v. and couch guy...i like to get things done, get outside and get my hands dirty....although i can definitely cuddle inside and relax with the best of them...as a social creature, my weekends consist of having fun with my friends. clubbing, camping, bbqing...and much much more....guess im looking for someone to join me....that someone is you....maybe ;)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
lets pick a recipe for something neither of us has made before....and maybe never even tried....something exotic where we have to go to someplace like chinatown for a key ingredient, and then attempt to make our marvelous meal, while enjoying a nice wine. after we have thoroughly enjoyed our meal, or finished gagging down the last overcooked morsel, perhaps a walk to the beach coupled with a sneaky little bonfire and some more delicious vino