If you are not completely legally finished with your last spouse, please clean your plate before asking for seconds! I will check your background, I have a child and I will protect her at all costs.
I like an occasional play date but my goal is to find someone to spend forever with!
I realize that age is just a number but if your 50 your too old to ride this ride! Attention : All riders must be between 40 and 48. I know that is a small gap, but I find that under 40 is still looking for someone 25 and over 50 is looking for someone with a pulse. I want someone who is looking for me!
My hair style color and length change constantly. Every time I have a life changing event, my hair changes. It keeps me grounded, so if you are someone who has to date a redhead or only dates long hair, it will be a very short relationship.
Here is the situation. I am a real person. I don't wear much makeup. I can't walk in heels, well I can , but its not cute. I am horrible at first dates. Second dates are slightly better, I can be an amazing wife, a great friend, an awesome play date, and a supportive and caring advice giver. I love kids, all kids, and I am a great parent. I am loyal, honest and very understanding. I will be at the door when you get home , take off your shoes , rub your feet , get you the remote , whatever. And when I get home after a long day it would be great if you could do the same. I am looking for a partner. My life is great single , it can only get better . I love kids animals and old people. I am a giver. I am not a beauty queen. I am happy with the me that I am.
I believe in the languages of love, I am a show me kind of person. If I am supposed to be at work really early and I wake up and find a little note that says, "Honey, filled the car with gas and the coffee is made just hit the button." I am seriously going to love you. However, If I wake up to a great massage and a dozen flowers, but I go downstairs and find you used the last of the coffee yesterday and forgot to get gas in the car. I can promise you that neither one of us is gonna have a great day, cause the money you spent on flowers could have filled my tank... My love language is service, if you dont know what that means, read the book. I want to do for you and I want you to do for me.
So, POF suggests that we add things to our profiles that make us unique. Here they are: My mom is one of my best friends, My dog is my other best friend. I have never been arrested. I like to pay for dinner now and then. I listen to country music in private, but change the station when I get out of the car so no one knows. I can't swim very well, and I have road rage. I will probably die someday by drowning in a lake after driving off the pier cause someone made me mad. I go to church on Sundays, but look for any excuse in the world to get out of going on Wednesdays. I love kids, but occasionally feel like shaking them. I sometimes snore, thats what people say, but I dont know for sure, cause I am sleeping. I like roller coasters but I hate the drops. I can't stand the tea cups, can't even watch someone ride them. I am a single mom. I take forever to decide that I love someone, but when I do, its forever. I am financially stable, whatever that means. I have a brilliant kid, she is mildly nuts though. I sometimes get lonely, especially on the holidays. I move very slowly, never kiss on the first date. I like doing family things like playing scrabble or cards and having bbq's. I like going to amusement parks, I am willing to go just about anywhere with you, except camping. I don't see any reason to drive into the woods and sleep on the ground. But I will pack you a lunch and some bug spray and you can go have a great time. I do not get up in the morning and get all fixed up before coffee, but I do fix up pretty nice when I want to. I want to do stuff outdoors, but I burn in the summer. When I ask someone what they think I like the say: hiking, road trips, mountains, oceans, fairs and festivals, harbor cruises, red wine and dancing. I only drink about twice a year. I look EVERYONE up on Megans Law. I guess that is enough for you to decide if I am unique.
I can not stand emailing and texting for days and days, just send me a hi, if I send one back, invite me out. That is how courting works. You say hi, I say hi and you say would you go out with me. That is simple.