I recently completed a tantra workshop that gave me a different view of what I'm looking for in a woman. I'm much less focused on looks and literary/musical tastes, and more on femininity, positivity and an open heart. I'm not expecting to meet a soulmate or sex goddess, but I am looking for somebody who is trying to better herself in every way.
As for me, I've got an INTJ personality type, which means that I'm a hardcore individualist who loves figuring things out and devising complex systems and grand productions. I have a quirky sense of humour. I'm a big geek about the things I like, and that includes mechanical watches, smart advertising, Belgian beers, altered states of consciousness (not chemically induced) and retro computer equipment. I spend most of my time running my own business in the downtown core, but I'm not tied to work and have a lot of freedom with my time.
I like any movie in a post-apocalyptic or dystopian setting (like Brazil, Battle Royale and Dark City), any movie depicting a person's separation from reality (like Donnie Darko, Mulholland Dr. and Pan's Labyrinth) and any movie featuring men in suits, exchanging blows using dialogue (like Glengarry Glen Ross and Reservoir Dogs).
Music is an important part of my life. My favourite bands and musicians are Tom Waits, The Magnetic Fields, Dan Bern, Jason Webley, The Dresden Dolls, The Flaming Lips, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Mercury Rev, Momus, Neutral Milk Hotel, Nick Cave, Pink Floyd and The Weakerthans.
If you've read this far, I hope to hear from you soon. If you don't know what to say, ask me about the big red ball!