I am a 30 year old divorced man with a 4 year old little girl. I work real hard as a quality manager for a international supply company. I enjoy all sports, travelling, watching movies and as always cuddling. My last relationship lasted 14 years so this is really new to me. The last date I was on with someone other than my ex-wife was years ago. Most people consider me real open minded, non-judgemental, with a great sense of humour. I know how to have fun and know when it is time to be serious. Im at a point in my life now were I would like to try new things. I'm looking for a women who is done with the bar scene but still likes to go out for a occasional drink to watch a game or have a bite to eat. I dont play games so you shouldn't either. I dont like to guess on what your thinking or feeling, so if you dont know or don't tell me it's your issue. I need a women who is open and honest to the fullest. I know there will be a "getting to know each other" phase in which we ALL have our boundries and limits, but at some point in our lives the walls must come down in order to achieve true happiness. I have taken the hard road in every aspect of my life so I can appreciate the finner, less extravagant things in life. Knowing that getting to know someone on a intellectual level, being able to sustain a conversation, listening instead of just hearing, connecting emotionally not just physically is most important. I need a best friend, a confidant, a lover, and yes sometimes a therapist. We all need that someone in our lives who can LISTEN and not judge. Who can try to be supportive and not bias. I love to talk just about anything, I am open and supportive to the tenth degree, Sometimes you may not like what I say but Im being honest with you and myself. People say the truth hurts. I disagree. The truth is just unexpected. Most people want the truth but expect the rose colored,life is always beautiful answer. So when the actual truth comes out it may catch you of guard at first, we just need to let it sink in for awhile. I may look rough around the edges, but let me assure you I am as warm hearted as they come.