I'm looking for a long-term relationship, and open to an interracial connection.
Please note the best way to catch my attention is to ask for my telephone number, or better, to send yours! I'm not here for penpals. And for those with only sexual intentions: Allow me to be blunt. I'm not into meaningless flings. I'm looking for a meaningful long-term relationship. I respect not everyone is in that market, and that is ok. Just please be respectful of my choice when contacting me or should we be able to meet.
*POF only allows one location....though my time is divided by many locations. I live in Arkansas, with my uncle, i am Tracy and am easy to get along with. No need to get your mind out of the gutter as you'll enjoy my ability to laugh it up right along with you, while keeping my serious side readily available for crisis management, or a visit with your family. You'll be dazzled by my personality, most likely more than my cooking abilities, though I make a mean reservation, and would be pleased to have you join me.
Whether we are enjoying food or movies, a glass of wine, your interests would always be considered. Generally, I'm the one to say "anywhere you like is fine with me," since it is who I'm with that counts more than what we are doing or where we are going. A beer and a basketball game is as much of a treat as an evening on the couch in your arms. And a night cuddling can be a real treat, especially as our comfort and trust of one another grows. We can catch your action flicks, or movies like 3 Days to Kill, Ted, Don Jon, Captain Phillips or Argo, together - don't worry, Trouble with the Curve, Magic Mike and the Notebook can be saved for Girl's Night! Or maybe we'll just enjoy geeking out a little over a Harry Potter or Hunger Games marathon together. I promise I won't nag you when your shirts get ratty - but I'll have fun teasing you until I surprise you with a new one. Dressing up or dressing down - either is fine by me, as you'll love me in my jeans on our own time, (perhaps, something lacey when the time is right!) and appreciate my ability to clean up nicely and step it up a notch to impress your boss or important clients.
Speaking of your boss, your stressful workday may not be cured by my attempt at a shoulder massage, but I'll certainly try to make your night easier than your job has....and once in awhile, I won't say a word when I stretch my legs over your lap and wiggle my stylishly decorated tootsies (picture included) in front of you for a massage of my own ;-)
In all seriousness, I'm the friend that friendships (or bail bonds)are made of, with the heart that considers others needs. I'm generous to a fault - just ask my former boss (still friends) or my Business Partner, both of whom are current beneficiaries of little treats and lots of food! Mothers love me as their own, and with a sweetheart like me in your corner, you'll always find the unconditional love and support to make all of your dreams and ambitions come true. Relationships aren't always simple, but together, we can live, laugh, and love.
I'd just like to add...
You may have kids, and you may not. Either is OK by me. If you are a dad, please know that I will be very respectful of your choices as a parent as to when meeting your children would be appropriate. Please also understand that if a connection and bond is formed, you may not be LOOKING for a "new mommy" for your kids, but I would never treat them as if they are "YOUR" kids. Knowing what a sensitive topic this can be, and the primary age-range of men I would like to meet, there is no need for you to wonder where your kids would fit with me if a relationship kindled between you and me.
Enough about me…tell me more about you!
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying every moment! Actually, I am in the middle of a professional transition.I have decided to capitalize on my specialty in Buying and selling I'm busy, but never too busy for the people important in my life, and I'm looking forward to adding one more special man into that category.
Favorite books + movies + tv
Books: Biographies, novels, "The Four Agreements" and "The Alchemist", and certain other authors. I am a voracious reader. Currently working on work related reads. My last was Captain Phillips, as I wanted to finish reading it before I saw the film. I finished reading the first book of two of the Hottest Trilogies: The Hunger Games and 50 Shades of Gray. My next reading/movie goal is the Harry Potter series.
Movies: Mostly mainstream comedy, action, drama. I get multiple weekly e-mails for free movie previews (just saw 3 Days to Kill - 2 weeks before release) and I love Redbox! We'd be here until next Tuesday.
TV: Not into "reality" shows. If you have not seen "The Bridge" on FX, you must! NCIS/NCIS:LA, Under the Dome, Two and a Half Men (Charlie Sheen), How I Met Your Mother, Firefly (Serenity), Castle, Cold Case, Without a Trace, West Wing, The Beast (2009 Patrick Swayze on A&E), Family Guy, Arrested Development, Friends, Sopranos, and more. I don't sit behind the tv for long periods of time, though there are a lot of well-written and intelligent tv shows. TV on DVD makes for great background noise so I can get work done. An ideal match enjoys some television, also.
I’m looking for
•Straight guys only
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
There is a difference between a first meeting and a date!!!
If our first meeting is "casual" - like a Starbucks meet - at lease be a gentleman. Show up dressed closer to the "job interview" side of the spectrum, rather than the "I just left the gym" side of the spectrum. Not to sound negative, but from repeated experience, if I have to coach you on how to make a good 1st impression, it's unlikely there will be the opportunity for a second.
You should message me if
If you are not afraid of having an awesome potential girlfriend who has a little meat on her bones! Finally, if you are SLIGHTLY younger or older than the "I'm Looking for" listing. Having a connection who is on the same maturity level is more important than his age - within reason, of course.
Take a moment to say hello and I promise that you will get a response in return. :-D