I am so non-photogenic. Anyway, I am told I am anal-retentive and probably think too much but anyway I can still have fun right?! I like the movies, dining, drinks, dancing, driving trips, traveling, beach time, picnics, reading, etc and when I have time to I also write. Most important, spend time with the right lady and basically have fun.
Of course the coffee date is required at the beginning to make sure the chemistry is there. Then a nice quiet romantic dinner and a nice walk after dinner maybe some dancing. So Cal is so beautiful at night, let's enjoy it!
Spend time with a lady open minded and willing to try new things. Willing to explore the unexpected and unknown. Not Twilight Zone type but just let your hair down and have fun. Life is too short...I hope you dance...