OK, now I don't even really care if you're male, as long as you can *think.*
All I will want to talk about is politics. I prefer a long-distance relationship.
In the long run, looking for someone who enjoys board games, card games, games where you move little things around depending on dice throws, scavenger hunts, bocce - things where you spend time together doing something fun that isn't exercise, I guess. Frisbee, but not Ultimate. We can also have a few drinks at the same time. And eat good food in small portions, many of them, over many hours and many venues.
And if you can play Mah-Jongg (game of 4 winds, the REAL game), whether American, Chinese or Japanese (which is my way), let me know.
Start with drinks and talk about the election, if we like the argument go somewhere for dinner, if we like that discussion go somewhere else to argue over dessert...