I want someone to do the things I like with, not someone to just be with and have that be the only point. You will not be the center of my universe, and I won't be the center of yours; but together, we might be the center of a wonderful one.
In the short run, looking for someone who enjoys board games, card games, games where you move little things around depending on dice throws, scavenger hunts, bocce - things where you spend time together doing something fun that isn't exercise, I guess. Frisbee, but not Ultimate. We can also have a few drinks at the same time...
I split my time between Charlottesville and Richmond, so whichever, is fine.
And if you can play Mah-Jongg (game of 4 winds, the REAL game), whether American, Chinese or Japanese (which is my way), let me know pronto!