Resumes are the worst, I'm the type of person that..... - who cares???? Honestly, you're either attracted or you're not and you're either going to ask me out or you're not 'cause all of the real chemistry happens when you meet not in the months, hours, days preceding while you are spending all that time getting to know someone via email just to find out that they type well but can't interact one on one or their breath smells or whatever might be your turn off. There just has to be more than email to feel whether or not there is a connection. If you're afraid of people and talking or never smile in pictures - there's a good chance we're not going to click. People are drawn to me and I like people like me - FUN and HAPPY. If you fit the mold, let's meet, it just wouldn't be right to let me miss out on an opportunity to know you, now would it???? ;-)
First dates can't be first dates if you want a 2nd date and that goes for men and women both (not a bi statement). Frankly, if we don't have FUN and don't enjoy doing things together, I'm not going to remember all the answers to the Q&A session of most first dates so why do it. Let's just have FUN, we can go hiking, biking, throwing frisbee at the beach, don't care but make it FUN, make it athletic, make it unique - you know..... anything but coffee or a drink - there's really so many options. Every first date should feel like the 5th - easy, friendly, never ackward, just fun as if we already know and like each other and are just out to have a good time doing something we enjoy together.