I know that I an a catch. Not to sound super self absorbed or really into myself, I just know it's true. I'm a really cool guy who has a lot to offer both in a relationship/spiritual/non-physical sense.. but also in a real world touchy feely day to day sense. I have a huge heart and give myself and my all when it comes to family. I would rather build something special at home, than try to go out and create meaningless nothings. I don't really get into trouble, go out looking for ladies or try to get laid, get drunk, etc.. I've had my share of exploits and adventures with the opposite sex.. I am ready for some change.. something new. I work hard and try to concentrate on my life evolving to that picture perfect way I see my future self and surroundings.. the only thing missing is the person I am meant to share it with. I don't settle for less than what I think I deserve, and really am looking for someone special, someone who fits the mold so to speak.
I don't want this to sound super lame... especially by saying "I'm really down to earth".. because despite probably every guy on here saying that, I really mean it. I am one of those kinda people that makes you feel safe, you can just chill with me, and hours will slip on by. I keep a drama free atmosphere, and don't bring or welcome problems into my life. Sometimes I think I am a hopeless romantic. But then I realize that I always have hope. I'll find her no matter how hard I have to look. I do have a great sense of humor, sometimes I can be cynical.. but mostly I am just easy going and love to laugh.. but can tell the difference between what's funny and what's going too far.
I own a home.. have a great career plan.. am a provider.. I have had a couple of lifestyle and occupational changes the past few years.. and am finally on the right path. I am sharp as a tack, and utilize my gifts and life experience to try to strive for a better tomorrow. I think I've done a pretty good job of getting where I am now all on my own.
As far as my interests go.. I love to travel, love theme parks, vacationing, photography, poker, camping, going out to eat, movies in the theater or at home on my big screen, I love concerts, music, occasional glasses of wine, swimming, sight seeing, shopping, long drives, hiking, nature, coffee at home, or coffee from a coffeeshop, I love computers, technology, horror movies, science fiction, even comic book related genres, but also down to earth stuff like biographical films or documentaries, I love technology in general, I dabble in DSLR Nikon photography and Photoshop, I love my Galaxy S4 Smarrtphone, I love and hate Social Media at the same time.. lol.. I love troubleshooting, helping others with their technical problems. I have a pretty diverse set of interests.. or so I would love to think.
Music.. I love music.. and a wide variety of it.. I listen to everything from Fall Out Boy to Prince to Marilyn Manson to newer Punk/Emo to Classic Funk and R&B.. a little of everything.
I am finally doing something that I love for a living.. and have a great job making good money, soon to be great money. I am definitely moving on up. Life has had its share of ups and downs for me the past few years.. I wanted to get past all that though before I tried meeting someone new.
My last Ex (fiance) was younger, and although really a pretty girl on the outside.. not so much on the inside. She used me to stay complacent with her routine of accomplishing nothing.. and all the while I was working to provide for us, she would be getting high or running around with her guy friends in secret while I was at work.. I tried to make it last but finally one day I said.. "Enough is Enough!" I ended that, and what went from a diamond engagement ring turned into several packed suitcases. I went from head over heels in love to "God WHY DID I DO THIS?" Pretty fast that year. It took a while to get over all of that. But I am past it now.
I hope to find someone who will be on the same page as myself when it comes down to the things that are important. Family, quality of life, being happy but also aspiring to always have and be better, but most importantly TRUST and faithfulness.. not needing to worry. That's what I want.. all the while I want to share those things with someone who is capable of being my #1.. and hoping that I fit the same role in their life as well. Obviously none of this can happen overnight or even in a relatively short period of time.. but I have years to build something special. I just need to find the right gal.
I made this profile years ago.. but had to change all of it since I have changed so much over the past 5 years. I just now updated the entire thing.. so it is all current in it's entirety as of 7/21/2014.