I do not plan on marrying, I'm happy with my life, and I love having someone to hang out with, be really close to, and NOT have him freak out because he's afraid I want to marry him, or who can't handle ambiguity. I find that men my age are typically a little too sedate or unable to keep up with me...OR panicking that they haven't found a woman to give birth to their children. I can't have kids, so if that's your fantasy...I'm not the one.
eat really good food, drink great wine, laugh, have good conversation, go on a hike (probably before the eating!) or a great yoga class, laugh some more....talk some more (both of us), looking up with shock when they're closing the restaurant all around us because we've lost track of time......this is an IDEAL...obviously if we discover we're from different sides of the moon, we could say a friendly 'namaste' after the yoga class and chalk it up to karma.