8/26/13..... I have a good reason for having not been on here for over a year. I came back on here to turn off my my automatic membership renewal (my card was charged last month). One night stands and flawed dates had run its course. However, I did meet a few good people here and there. I reunited with my first crush from grade school. Yes, I really said grade school. She is a gorgeous woman, and that is not just my opinion. This site is mostly a fraud. I see a number of the same women from a year ago still on here. I seriously wish you all the best! You will find something amazing when you are not looking. Take a break, and love with happen when you least expect it.