IF you want just sex OR IF my photos, to you, make me seem "not your type" then SOD OFF! DO NOT LOOK HERE!
IF you have NO INTEREST in getting to know me BECAUSE you looked at my pictures then YOU ARE HORRIBLE! DO NOT LOOK HERE!
IF you kiss (or worse! God forbid!) on the first date - DO NOT LOOK HERE!
IF you want "naked pics" from ANYONE - DO NOT LOOK HERE!
IF you HAVE "naked pics" (and if you do or do not send them out to people) - DO NOT LOOK HERE!
IF you prefer MAN-WHORES and prefer JACKASSES - DO NOT LOOK HERE!
IF you prefer to be TREATED LIKE DIRT - DO NOT LOOK HERE!
IF you DO NOT want love, but only want to have your body be USED - DO NOT LOOK HERE!
... BUT IF you want to GET TO KNOW ME, INSIDE, EVEN BEFORE looking at EVEN ONE of my pictures ... then LOOK HERE. PLEASE!
Ladies, you SHOULD NEVER have to ask or demand or even merely state that a male NOT seek you just for a "booty call", nor should you have to protest against males asking for "naked pics", NOR SHOULD YOU EVER HAVE TO write so many disclaimers against how you don't wanna be gamed and how they should move on if they want someone who is easy. THE MAN (whoever he may be) should just be MORAL, UPRIGHT and RESPECTFUL. I believe in this. I don't know how any of you women can tolerate being here, most of the time! Bravo and props to STRONG women!
After much time and yet more "relationship" experience, teaching me yet more unsavory experiences in life, I have come to ponder my approach, and now I've re-written this entirely (thanks to another profile which I used as a template, all the info here is my own):
I love spending time with the right woman.
I can cook a few dishes but I'm not much of a chef.
Otherwise, I'm very charismatic, famously known for being "INTENSE", and multi-faceted in maybe too many ways.
I normally prefer being alone; unless I am involved with someone: then they're the one I want to spend time with.
I am guarded around strangers and very reserved in social gatherings, tending to stay with people I know.
I love to know that someone especially thought of me.
Respectful women make me feel proud to be a man.
I was born and raised in Michigan, and my travels include: to Canada, California, Ohio, West Virginia, Virginia, New York, Pennsylvania, Iowa, Missouri, and now Kansas.
I learned French in high school over a period of 3 years but now my vocabulary is quite rusty.
Grieving over a lost loved one is something I wish I never had to do.
I am not too good at "bar games" like pool but I'm decent at darts (and I usually despise bars anyway)
I am a good swimmer, and I love nature.
I am fully self-supporting, pay my bills on time, and can take myself out to a nice dinner.
Women loved my long hair and my EYES (shrugs - all the long hair is all gone now)
I would rather date a loving woman with a real heart, rather than someone who wants to use others for their money.
I don't believe in luck, but the possibility of divine destiny seems more appropriate.
I must be repulsive or something, because 90% of women on this site pass me right by!
I'm on this site because I want to settle down with a TRULY AWAKE, truly Jesus-following woman, and raise a family if possible.
There are a LOT of things in life that I have wanted and still want, but I am slowly coming to terms with the idea that I am not likely to have any of them... that is more tough than most people know.
If you are not politically aware of Liberty and Truth, even to a SPIRITUAL level, and are not beyond the false left/right paradigm of the constant stupid fight between Democrat vs. Republican, NOR wanting to learn? THEN we ARE going to have problems right away. :(
Hopefully you are:
AWAKE, a follower of Jesus, feminine, respectful, HONEST, INTELLECTUALLY STIMULATING, caring, full of LOVING-KINDNESS, and that RARE GIRL who NEVER "TRUSTS YOUR FEELINGS" but instead CHOOSES FIRST to evaluate the WHOLE TRUTH of a matter with "that other side" of your BRAIN. NEVER EVER try or seek to "protect MY feelings" - please only ever tell me the whole truth!
Wanted: understanding, faithful, loyal, open minded, & not wanting to depend on me for everything just yet.
You have traveled anywhere (or love to travel), find life to be a huge mix of irony and amazement, love studying the BIBLE, and maybe Role-Playing Games (and see no conflict of interest between them.)
You value your independence, but eventually want someone to commit that entirely to.
Timing is very important, but not as important as considering the other person.
With that said, I want a woman who is beautiful on the inside AND out, who would like to find the right person for her own sake, and not mine or anyone else's.
I want a woman to love for the rest of my life and maybe have children with.
Things are happening in the world right now that make everything a very unstable place.
I want to be her rock, as she would be my surrounding ocean of dreams.
(REVISED: June 30th, 2013)
NOTE: 3 of my pics are OLD (2010)
I will upload new pics soon (my hair is VERY short now!)
People must think that I am boring because I'm rather introverted when I'm out, socially. I think that is merely because they don't even know much about the (HUNDREDS of!) subjects which I am passionately involved in! I'd really like to be more conversant and find people who feel likewise, about things I am interested in. I would hope that this means the right woman coming down my path, or myself finding her. I love to have a lot of common ground with someone and I feel that is the basis for a far better improvement of communication.
Things I DO do are mostly reading the news and world events, articles, BOOKS (does anyone ELSE truly READ anymore?!), Role-playing games with friends, occasional video games, sometimes watching movies, working on my computer, programming, political and 9/11 Truth activism, writing commentary articles of my own (I'm a blogger) etc...
I believe if we don't let our lights shine, cursing the darkness will get us nowhere. I struggle with that every day, but I do not want to be found as an "lousy and unfaithful servant" by the LORD JESUS when he returns. Therefore I have been implementing my talents even in my daily life... not to boast, but I feel horrible if I hide my light under a bushel. I can't and won't do that anymore.
"Don't regret the past. At one time it was exactly what you wanted..."
"No matter how bad things are at any one moment, no moment lasts. good or bad, time moves on because it has to, and so do you."
"You change for two reasons; either you learn enough that you want to, or you've been hurt enough that you have to."
I believe: You never find true love ... it always finds YOU!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
** Section REVISED as of April 28th, 2011 **
There is so much more for me to say, it would take BOOKS and BOOKS worth of conversation and literary effort in order for someone to get to know me. I hope you're a reader, or are that interested and want to know more. I have been SAVING MYSELF (yes, literally! most know what this means) for the right woman - if you think you are her, PLEASE WRITE!
I don't care ANYTHING for sports (except maybe hockey) so most of that will automatically be OUT, for me...
(You'd seriously find me bored to death and looking for something else to do. I'd prefer a book store or cafe, something like that. I am not your "typical" guy).
So... How about attending or creating a local political protest??? :)
U.S. Army soldier Private First Class "Bradley Manning" (a GREAT hero) is in town, now IN Leavenworth MILITARY PRISON. Bonus points if you know who he is... and if you appreciate the total good of what he has done for America. (If you don't know, then watch the video at CollateralMurder dot org for more info :)