So I guess we are supposed to be honest on here if we expect to find what we are looking for....honesty without giving too much away...interesting. Well I will give it a shot:
I am a BBW and if you dont know what that is...well then you are probably not interested in a woman with some extra to grab onto and that's ok...there are a lot of men out there who do appreciate a woman with no hip bones showing. Finding a sexual partner isn't the problem for me...it's finding a long term relationship.
I am a TRUE Scorpio so I am very passionate about everything I do. I was never raised to bat my eyelashes and I don't laugh at innane jokes just to make a man feel better. This being said I LOVE Monty Python, Mr Bean and I think that Weekend at Bernies, Wedding Crashers, and 40 Year Old Virgin are my 3 favorite comedies. I WILL laugh at someone who falls but not if they actually get hurt.
I am always told I'm the no BS person and the one to turn to to get things done. Conversely though I love to hold hands and kiss for hours, I'm generous to a fault and wear my heart on my sleeve.
How can I be both...straight forward AND a romantic? Not because I'm a woman (which helps) or a Scorpio (which has a lot to do with it) but because I am. I choose to be that person. Hearts get broken, mine has too, but I choose to allow it to get broken again...although hopefully not. Many risks with heart strings will be taken before my time is up and I don't want to miss out on a great thing by building walls and avoiding possibilities.
I work in health care and I am very active in my union. I enjoy my union activities and love lobbying government to legislate change in health care reform. I've been to the Legislature to oppose the 3rd Way, I've written my MLA and MP, I've picketed unfair employers all for the greater good of labour and health care change. My family and my work are important to me. Both require me to travel a bit so I am all over the province which also makes it hard to meet someone.
What it comes down to is this...if you want a barbie doll type then I'm not it. If you want an independant woman who will have your back as long as you have her's then I am. If you've read this far you may as well email me and let's start talking. All we can each do is take the chance.
Nothing special is needed really...a good meal, wine, talking...you choose...something different maybe...eating caramels, the shooting range, going to a garage sale, people watching..whatever...I'm open to new things. Give it your best shot.