JadeLotus1
Age: 41
Dating
scal72: Are you the one??
About
Occasional smoker with A Few Extra Pounds
City
Belleair bluffs, Florida
Details
42 year old Woman, 5' 5" (165cm), Christian - other
Ethnicity
Caucasian Taurus with Brown hair
Intent
scal72 Actively seeking a relationship
Education
Masters degree
Personality
Profession
Accountant by trade- Full Time Mom at this time







I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer not to say
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Other
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years


Interests
Spending time with my sonCollecting sea shells by the seashoreMusic
Not big on outdoor activities could change with right activity thoughMoviesLaughing
Having funOccasional club/bar outingSpending time with family/friends
Some sporting eventsWant to learn to danceAnything analytical
Eating outLearning new things/experiencesLots more

About Me
First - I am not a negative person but I have to say I have not had luck on this site and have decided that people probably need to come with warning labels on them! This seemed simple, I want someone to share my life with and other people want the same things, but as I have found, not so simple. I am not looking for a lot of people, just that one person.

Because I have put my social life on hold for a long time and because I am a pretty positive person, I decided to try this again (it's free) and you never know where or when you will meet your Mr. Right. I have a lot to bring to the table and want someone to share it with. There is so much to know about me but because of my past experiences with this site I decided not to write anything about my personality/personal life in this profile. The only thing that you MUST KNOW UPFRONT is that I am the proud, single mother of a 6 year old boy who will ALWAYS come first and therefore, my match MUST be open to having a child around as he is the true love of my life and the most important thing to me and will always be. Other than that, I am most definitely open, like to talk and promise to answer any questions with brutal honesty. (No sugar coating here.)

I also don't think email/texting, etc. is a proper form of communication while getting to know someone so I prefer to talk on the phone at first and try to meet while getting to know about each other.

My match must be wanting to have fun, WILLING to find the time to do it and be SERIOUS about it. I know we are all extremely busy so I won't waste your time and ask the same from you. I also only talk to one person at a time as I like to give that person my full attention. I am a full-time single mother and believe that my best match would probably be a single dad or someone who has children on a regular basis.If you are someone I have gained an interest in as a friend or something more, I promise to listen, make every attempt to get to know you and understand you. You will always have my attention and a shoulder if needed. You will always know where you stand with me and most importantly why.

I think communication is a key to making a relationship work, so open and honest communication on a continual basis is a must for me.

Looks are not everything, but for me there must be some physical attraction so I would only like to communicate with people who are comfortable showing their true picture. At this point I should also mention that I am not a 'ten', don't want to be and if you are looking for the WOW factor or a barbie on your shoulder, please move on to the next person. I have read many profiles where the person is looking for that and I am just a normal, down-to-earth person who does not work out five days a week and has no interest in Mr. Perfect. However, that does not mean I do not take care of myself and take pride in my looks, just not a perfect person and working out all the time is not my number one priority.

My three pet peeves are lying, cheating and stealing.

I would like to share two of my favorite quotes . The first is ‘Real love is not finding someone who thinks you're perfect. It's finding someone who knows your imperfections and loves you for them.’ And the second is ‘Take me as I am or watch me as I go. Your own happiness is the most important thing.’ With all that said, I hope to talk to you soon, wish you a great time with whatever you are doing in your life and happy hunting! Everyone deserves happiness in life and I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone.

Update to profile: If this is a hobby to you, you are looking for sexual encounters, you are a fake, you serial date, you have been on this site forever, you hate women or have serious baggage, you like to create drama or see how many women you can talk to at once, looking for the perfect person or the 'WOW' factor only, please move on. Do not ruin this for those of us who are seriously looking for a match. Thank You.

First Date
Depends on the person and situation at the time. Whatever the two of us would be comfortable and have with most importantly have fun with. That way, even if it's not a match, we got to have some fun. Maybe outside event as well so we can run if necessary - LOL.


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