Dating over 40. Oh lort.
I like laid-back and calm atmospheres; a pot of coffee on day-off mornings while I read Internet things (always reading about something); movies and music is enjoyable here and there.
I did the party-hardy thing in my 20s. I'm not into that at all now. If you need to be on the turnt-up scene....then pass me by. I'll save the wild and crazy for the bedroom.
Yes, I live in Independence (the decent side). No, I don't sell meth or stolen merch, or have 3 broken cars in my lawn.