FIRST, and above everything else, if you message me and you think it is ok to talk to me filthy, dirty, or with no respect whatsoever, I will not answer and you will never talk to me. I have spent a big portion of my life with men trying to use me for sex, and talking to me like im not worth anything but that. So I have grown very defensive towards men who know nothing about me and don't care to learn anything but have no problem talking to me like I'm some sort of internet porn site, or a 1 800 number. That is not the girl I am and not the girl I am willing to be for anybody, if I do not know you at all and you cannot talk to me with respect please do not talk to me at all. I do not mean to come across rude but I have found with this site that 80% of the emails I get are just disgusting and then I get a follow up email telling me how big of a **** I am because I do not respond to them. So just save us both some time. If you are honestly a nice man, a gentleman, and truly want to get to know me I would love to hear from you, and you will find out really fast that I am a sweet, funny, happy and very caring woman.
If you live far enough away from me that we have to plan weeks or days in advance to see each other, then it probably will not work. I want to be with somebody who can come see me or vice versa just because they want to see me. I have had the relationships where I was always the one doing everything and putting all the effort in, and now I am ready to be the one that is made to feel special and wanted, along with my effort also. And if you Live that far away for me that that cannot happen then it is not a relationship I want right now.
Here is a list about me...
-I am 32
-I am super sarcastic
-I have 3 children( although they are older-12, 14 and 17, so I have already put in my dues with the being stuck at home and never doing anything, Now Momma can get out more and have fun)
-I may not talk alot at first (doubtful but possible) Once I know you better, you will beg me to shut it
-I try to stay in an easy going mood as much as possible but I do know how to be serious when I need to be
-I enjoy going out and having a good time, but I also enjoy staying in, cooking a good dinner and turning a movie on and cuddling up and spending a quiet evening in!!
-If you think you know me or who/how I am yet have never really talked to me, give it a shot, I bet I am a lot different then you think I am!!
-And u know this is way early but h am willing to relocate for the right man.
Uuummmmm... Anything else, well, you just gotta ask me!!!
I always just want to smile :)
I will try just about anything once, and if I dont like it, then I will prolly try it once more just to be absolutely sure. But as far as a first date, I can try to be as original here as anyone but honestly, who is going to meet someone for the first time and go hiking in the mountains alone, or meet and drive a good distance away when you are meeting for for the first time. A restaurant and lunch or dinner is really the response that is general going to be a first date! If I am going to meet you and you are going to kill me, well, I am not going to just walk into the woods and do half the work for you, your going to have to work for it!!! :-)