trustiskeepingyourword: Let's value and appreciate each other!
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Gresham, Oregon
49 year old Male, 5' 8" (173cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Gemini
trustiskeepingyourword wants to find someone to marry.
Masters Degree
Free Thinker
Professional Counselor + (Advanced skills)

Most recent pic - Note: this is NOT my very cute cat; I prefer dogs.

I am Seeking a Woman For Friends
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About Steve
Let's fulfill each other's needs.
I am looking for a mature woman who will truly value and appreciate me.

I am all about simple and easy communication.

I am ideally seeking a great woman to form a lifelong commitment to and who wants a child,
I am seeking a loyal mate, lover, and partner who communicates with ease.
I communicate very well and I am very affectionate with a woman willing to be sexy, who choses to reciprocate with ease.
***You must be warm-hearted, direct, clear, accepting and be VERY OPEN and willing to be VULNERABLE in your 'COMMUNICATION SKILLS'!!!***
Being FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE and showing me that you 'see' and 'value' me are very important!!!

Please ask for what you want and need from me and be willing to give the same!!!

I have serious depth to me. New Thought spirituality = learning to surrender and get out of our ego mind and be much more like 'unconditional' love; seeking to REALLY understand others (this creates healing and health); all drama, conflict, and wounding occurs from judgmental condemnation and abandonment (making others wrong/ abandoning behavior = hurting others).

Doesn't 'Being LOVE' and REALLY LOVING means to come from our heart generously? REAL LOVE does NOT come from our immature judgmental condemning heads (ego/ shadow = FEAR - your fear is about 'your' past wounds) that creates ALL b.s. drama...are we not all children of the 'ONE', 'REAL LOVE'!!!?

I am seeking an emotionally mature woman who COMMUNICATES from REAL LOVE (compassion and empathy). Please be assertive, gentle, and kind.

If you use the words, "You 'make' me feel _____", often, in a 'significant' relationship, please move on...thank you; I am repulsed by unconscious women who 'play the victim' and turn into cold and mean perpetrators out of their harsh negative judgments and paranoia (f.e.a.r. (false evidence appearing real)).

I am seeking a woman that can really VALUE me and that allows me to value her!

I love BOLD assertiveness in a woman! You sincerely extend warm and caring friendship because you know that is the SOLID FOUNDATION of any healthy and meaningful connection; healthy relating is always about meeting needs and desires, right? You 'intend' to extend healthy friendship regardless of what happens with us because that is what extending/ giving REAL LOVE is all about

I love nature and having fun. I love to do anything outdoors or active.
I love to camp, bike, roller blade, canoe, ski, get healthy exercise, etc. with a enthusiastic like-minded friend/partner.

I love animals and I am AWESOME with them!

I love an assertive woman, especially a woman that
You must play 'fair' with my heart. Open, mutually respectful, honest communication with GOOD active-listening skills is crucial to a healthy
I am highly affectionate!!! I love affection from an intelligent mature woman who knows how to be sexy and playful, NOT rigid nor frigid.

Please IM me if you like my profile and my pics...
I LOVE a mature, assert, confident, non-judgmental, and warm woman who makes communication very simple and stops judging what is said and has fun with connecting to me vs. immature rambling about everyone except us!

Jesus is 'not' my lord 'nor' my savior, however, REAL LOVE radiating from my own heart is...LOVE (GOD) is within you and me at our 'core' self. REAL LOVE is what my God (Truth) is. REAL LOVE, what most call God, (our core "Godself" (LOVE)) is hidden DEEP inside each and everyone of us because "with great power comes great responsibility".

I /We are inherently LOVE expressions at our core when we choose to LOVE vs. react in fear...very challenging, but it is the spiritual path. We BOTH GIVE OUR LOVE unconditionally (give acceptance) freely.

Healthy relationships are built on SOLID values...See:

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
***I am seeking a woman willing to vulnerable (courageous) that can really VALUE me AND that 'allows' me to value her!***
Please be gentle in tone and very assertive, direct, and open.
We play and have fun without ANY pressure on either of us!

We give equally! I am non-material; I only spend my money on women who consciously value me for me, not for what I have, can earn, or can produce...YUCK!!!!!!!! I am not a male financial slave.

We openly give great hugs/warm embraces and full eye contact; we are fully present to each other.

Bookstore, coffee, a walk in nature with lots of trees, or an adventure to numerous depends how much we give warmth and trust each other through IM and phone first...emotional safety comes first!

For those living far away: *If you communicate powerfully, and are very intentional about me, I 'may' be willing to move to your area; I have a current passport.

We consciously choose/intend to be emotionally respectful; you consciously listen to understand vs. make immature assumptions like most people. You are open to hearing new perspectives and understanding each other's needs, wants, and desires profoundly!!!

Please surprise me with kind, open, and assertive communication.

Below is 'only' for those women that insist on adversely judging my purposeful and highly-detailed profile:

Most men and women have been wounded from an "objectifying" dysfunctional society/culture based on money and sex: We each have been hurt by passive (neglectful), aggressive, insensitive, narcissistic, irrational, immature behavior in others and most of us have unconsciously and neglectfully done many of the same disrespectful behaviors.

Far too many humans are 'emotionally' blind (emotionally illiterate) - these men and women among us feel very inhibited to authentically 'feel' and 'emote' their very real emotions. Love is about being a warm, authentic, emotional, caring, empathetic and compassionate human being! Far too many men and women do not take responsibility for how they adversely judge and effect others energetically. Far too many people are in denial of how emotionally wounded (HURT) they really are, and unfortunately because of this hurt has never been validated, many lack genuine empathy for the feelings and unmet needs/desires of others...because they hold so much resentment and fear from their own hurts.

Being emotionally mature is knowing my/our own feelings and needs well: MOST people do NOT understand that we each have dark shadow (ego) parts (hypocritical, dominating, controlling, dishonest, and in denial). Our shadow(s) are what we each hide, repress, and deny and ALWAYS causes drama. Every person has a dark shadow!!! Too many people are dishonest and judge passive-aggressively (withhold acceptance(love)...

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