First date........ That's a hard one....... (Oh that's her line **JOKE** )OK back to the date, Starbucks for some hot coco I guess. That way you have something hot to dump in my lap as you run away screaming in terror or you could stick around and talk till it is time for dinner and a walk in the park and look at the stars. Or do one of my favorite things which is go window shopping, builders depot has a vast quantity of different windows to look at. I know the proper answer is a candlelight dinner romantic music but honestly that is not me on a first date. I just enjoy sitting across the table and actually having a good conversation and eye contact, without worrying about which fork to pick up first.
Also on receptive to many different ideas and if someone has a better idea (which happens very often in my case) I do not find it hard in the ego department to change my mind in fact I have found most of my enjoyable evenings suggested by other people.