I'm a pretty laid back and chill guy looking for the same type of girl. Also looking for a girl that knows how to have respect for herself, and won't open her legs to any guy who walks by. I'd like to meet someone and start with just hanging out, and then see what happens as far as a relationship goes.
Coffee house, eat, walk in the park, the zoo. Anything that includes a lot of talking, shouldn't a first date be about finding out about that person, not sitting next to them in a dark room in silence?