I prefer older men who are very stable, mature, and have old-fashioned manners who aren't afraid to treat me with open affection. I love former military men who are not controlling and won't flinch that I am a feminist who still won't pay for dinner.
About me: 45 years old, tall and attractive, usually in skirts and heels. I'm something of a brainiac and enjoy stimulating conversation but don't like people who 'play devil's advocate' just to prolong a conversation. I love arthouse movies and am a little bit of a tv-head! I'm a big smiler who loves to laugh and I'm really talkative. I'm a sensitive person who tries not to hurt other people unless they require a good cussing out.
Are you: like "The Most Interesting Man In The World" from the beer commercial, reserved but still fun? VERY, VERY intelligent (!) but still cool and able to hold a conversation with all types of people? Do you READ, have hobbies, seek adventure? Do you dislike elitists? Do the church ladies like you because you're dependable and moral? Please beam me up to your home planet!! If your politics lean toward liberalism and you think like a citizen of the world...email me. If you love your career or family but don't believe we should spend every weekend with them...great! If you like sex but porn hasn't screwed up your ideas or expectations, let's meet.
Please don't be a man who can't arrive on-time or won't make a date to 'keep it loose'. Don't dress like a teenager in jean 'outfits' or pink Steve Harvey Suits for dates. Please don't be a wannabe-thug with vulture-neck who's constantly playing with his phone or calling women 'females'. And, please save both our time and your hurt feelings if you are some Rush Limbaugh-listener - don't even think about contacting me!
I love men and would like a caring relationship but I'm not desperate. I love good sex but you need charm and finesse to get it. I love to take care of my man but he has to EARN it by being kind, affectionate, generous, never demanding or taking me for granted. If you're thinking you're slick enough to break me; think again. Others have tried and been voted off the island before they could unpack their bags.
Let's meet at the DIA, try some cool ethnic restaurants or funky bookstores - I love trying new things (within reason). There's fun stuff to do in every season so let's find it! Please have spare time to spend together - don't use your kids or working as an excuse. You can't get the comforts of having a girlfriend without investing the time, energy and resources; it's the difference between a prostitute and a girlfriend.