I have good ethics, I am confident and secure with myself, I take care of me, I am loyal, successful, intelligent, educated, likeable, caring, generous, realistic, reliable, dependable, organized, humble, flexible, easy-going, healthy in all areas and am physically much younger than my chronologic age, always learning, always moving forward. I have a good job with above average pay, and unmatched benefits for myself and my would-be family. I know the differences between males and females and know how to cope with them. I respect individuality and independence and am not jealous or possessive. I will not pressure you for anything if I feel I have to, then you're not for me. I understand and respect the concept of boundaries. I know how and when to do the chores, including laundry :) I enjoy staying home during the work week and leaving the weekends open for whatever. That's why communication is great! I am happy being at home as well. I believe in those lazy Sunday mornings with brunch. These websites can add up to quite a bit, more than a good night out! So if you are interested, and you can decipher encryption, then Pegasus two underscore seven at ya who dot com
I realize that most everyone has had negative experiences in their past, no one is pristine, and now they focus in on certain "criteria". It's good in theory, but limits you severely, because when the honeymoon phase wears down who are you with really? I am looking for someone who is healthy mentally and physically and is secure with themselves and is ready for a commitment. I take mine seriously and I give all I have to give. So for all you superficial types who have to have a certain height, income level or education, keep on going and good luck in your next stab at serial monogamy. I want someone who is secure enough with their self, that their own income or education can sustain them just fine, and I can enhance that quite nicely. I'll meet your needs if you meet mine and frankly, I don't have many needs. I don't believe in 50/50, I believe in 100/100, I am neither arrogant nor macho, I'm much too secure for that. I'll be there for you emotionally and unconditionally. I believe that romance lives beyond the first couple of months, and I'll remember the dates and I'll surprise you from time to time. I want very much to have a wife and children, so if you want a man who has all of the husbandly, fatherly qualities, then I hope you let me know. I prefer someone who is attractive without the use of make-up, caked on make up is a major turn-off. I want someone who is well-kept and reasonably fit. One who has class but is not pretentious, who is feminine but not prissy, I want an equal, one that has her own life and can be a partner and know that I will be there in the end.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I would just like to go to a comfortable restaurant, either Mexican or Italian, and get a drink (doesn't have to be alcohol)and some appetizers and just chat to get to know a little bit about you, nothing too personal, then eat dinner, then go for a walk and talk some more. If it feels right, we can set some boundaries and we we are looking for. If everything sounds in agreement, then say good night and pick up where we left off next time. Just take it slow are sure.