I'm not the type of person to go to the movies on a first date. How can u get to know a person if u are sitting side by side with no eye contact or conversation?? I would suggest something fun like a quick bite to eat and then relaxing in a spa or jucuzzi while sipping a refreshing drink. Whoever thinks that is not a good first date is not telling the truth or just forgot to shave their legs. I feel that all the steam is a good ice breaker. But thats just me. Sometimes i let the females call the shots because it lets me know if they have any kind of ambition.