Hi everyone. I am a successful, fit, educated, handsome, pragmatic, artistic, and genuine male seeking a long term relationship. I'm sorry I do not lead the carefree bohemian single life most POF women think they want in a man. If you are seeking a responsible male who up until this moment has accrued no responsibilities in his life, you probably need to pause and think about how impossible that is. He either has responsibilities and is lying to you, or he is completely irresponsible. Meanwhile, I am (mostly) honest AND responsible. I have a career and children, so I seek a woman in a similar situation - she has responsibilities and those responsibilities might come before me - I get that! Age is unimportant and you don't have to be skinny, but fitness and beauty is paramount, especially for older respondents. Peace.