I like the company of a woman, I like it when we’re standing in line and she leans against me as though I were a pillar, when she asks me to open a jar, or reach something from a high shelf, or she asks me to go and get something she forgot in the car because it’s raining and she doesn’t want to get her hair wet, and when she runs her fingers through the hair on my chest…..
I think the best relationships just happen, you cannot go out shopping for a relationship the way you can for a car or a pair of pants. But sometimes you get lucky, and something good just comes along at the right time. Your job is to be ready, and to recognize it when it happens.
I think far too many of us here in the online dating community are hiding our true selves because we are afraid that we might scare off any potential dates. I myself can be very outspoken, outrageous even at times. Try it, let down the facade for a while. You might be surprised at just who is attracted to the real you. I tend to enjoy unusual people, people who don't fit easily into "molds". ZZ Top said it quite well: "I can keep a handle on anything just this side of deranged".
I want to have some fun, do some interesting things together. Yes, we can start with the conventional things, go to the movies, have dinner in a nice restaurant, or even just go for a drive in the country. I enjoy flea markets, and garage sales, and a quiet evening at home with a rented movie. But I also enjoy the wild and crazy side of life – when was the last time you went to Numbers? Or a live concert? When was the last time YOU did something that would shock your kids (if they were to find out, that is)?
I am a dog person, I have always shared my life with one or more dogs. I presently have a 6 year old beautiful yellow lab and a smaller mixed breed, both rescues. I get along fine with cats, and horses, and grandkids (have two of those).
I am not religious, but don't mind if you are. (As long as you don't try to save me -- smile). I quit smoking in 1997 (hardest thing I ever did), but I don't care if you smoke, as long as you are courteous about it. And I am not hung up on any physical characteristics, short, tall, thin, not so thin -- it's all good. I don't spend much time talking about politics, especially on a date, but if you listen to Rush Limbaugh, you probably should pass me by.
I realized a long time ago that life is a matter of attitude. If we choose to concentrate on the good things, be grateful for what we have, and try to enjoy wherever we are, whomever we're with, and whatever we're doing, we will be much more likely to enjoy our lives.
Just in case my profile isn't already too long, let me add one more thing. This is one of my favorite memories: many years ago, a spring night with beautiful weather, driving on a two lane farm-to-market road late at night, no traffic. A 1970 Challenger convertible, big V8 engine, headers and a “rumbly” exhaust. The top was down, the moon was full, the exhaust rumble was echoing back at me whenever I passed a farmhouse or a barn.
Generally speaking, I like to have a short initial meeting, just to see if we click. That is, meet first for conversation, and then have a dinner date at another time. One of my favorite initial meetings is brunch on Saturday or Sunday morning, or a lunch date on a weekday. For the first real date, I see nothing wrong with the movies. Catch the early show, then go for something to eat and talk about the movie and whatever else.
I am not one of those people who will only talk and never meet. If you contact me, and I think you're attractive, I WILL ask you to meet me, and I WILL take you out on dates. I’m old fashioned in that I open doors, and I pay for dates. But in many ways, I am the very opposite of old fashioned.
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