Well, I am a pretty regular guy. Never married, no kids, I don't smoke, no drugs, no crazy drama in my life. Never thought being a "nice guy" would keep me single, but I like to think I am funny, witty, sarcastic, goofy, sometimes serious when I need to be.
I don't have to be in a relationship to be happy, but it can be very rewarding to be with someone you share all the things with. I never thought I would be on a website that asks if I have a car, or a job, but I guess this is the world we live in now. I don't waste my time in relationships that break up and get back together and just are horrible to be in. I have just never been with the right woman I guess. On that note, if you have more than one child with more than one father, I am probably not interested. If you can't stand to be away from your phone for more than 10 minutes at a time we probably won't work either.
I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I don't play games, if I don't like something I will tell you. I am honest to a fault, and am probably the most uncomplicated guy you will ever meet. I am not a stranger to much anymore, but I'm willing to try anything new or interesting at least once (within reason).
I am a big audiophile, I have a wide variety of tastes in music, ranging from Audioslave to Zero Seven. I tend to lean towards hip hop, but have been known to rock an occasional instrumental movie soundtrack while working. I love some old 60's Soul, or 80's pop synth. I am about the same with most movies too, I can quote loads of obscure lines from obscure movies so take me to a trivia night and we could clean up. I like to travel and love the beach, so weekend vacation anyone?
I am open to getting to know a woman and if things get serious that is great, if they don't lets be adults. I will respond to messages or IM's, but only those with pictures (it is 2016, who doesn't have a phone?) and at least a little bit about yourself.
Oh yeah and if you are really serious about meeting a great guy, you might want to actually respond or talk to them. I know many guys before me have lowered your expectations, but you will never know unless you give it a shot.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I guess dinner or drinks or both and maybe a nice walk, or any activity where you get to see how you react and still be able to hear ourselves talk. I don't mind bars, It is a good way to meet someone and see where things go. Have a drink and if we want to continue, great! I am up for pretty much anything, and just want to have fun and enjoy the company of intelligent and attractive women.