Well, I am a pretty regular guy. Never married, no kids, I don't smoke, no drugs, no crazy drama in my life. Never thought being a "nice guy" would keep me single, but I like to think I am funny, witty, sarcastic, goofy, sometimes serious when I need to be.
I never thought I would be on a website that asks if I have a car, or a job, but I guess having your sh*t together is something too many males have problems with. I don't waste my time in relationships that break up and get back together and just are horrible to be in. I have just never been with the right woman I guess. On that note, if you have more than one child with more than one father, I am probably not interested. If you're into NASCAR or covered with tattoos and piercings that's great, I'm not. If you're profile has more than one "selfie" of you showing off your forehead and cleavage, I'm going to think you are hiding something.
I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I don't play games, if I don't like something I will tell you. I am honest to a fault, and am probably the most uncomplicated guy you will ever meet. I am not a stranger to much anymore, but I'm willing to try anything new or interesting at least once (within reason).
I am a big audiophile, I have a wide variety of tastes in music, ranging from Audioslave to Zero Seven. I tend to lean towards hip hop, but have been known to rock an occasional instrumental movie soundtrack while working. I love some old 60's Soul, or 80's pop synth. I am about the same with most movies too, I can quote loads of obscure lines from obscure movies so take me to a trivia night and we could clean up.
I am open to getting to know a woman and if things get serious that is great, if they don't lets be adults. I will respond to messages or IM's, but only those with pictures (it is 2013, who doesn't have a digital camera or know someone who does?) and at least a little bit about yourself.
Oh yeah and if you are really serious about meeting a great guy, you might want to actually respond or talk to them. I know many guys before me have lowered your expectations, but you will never know unless you give it a shot.
I guess dinner or drinks or both and maybe a nice walk, or any activity where you get to see how you react and still be able to hear ourselves talk. I don't mind bars, It is a good way to meet someone and see where things go. Have a drink and if we want to continue, great! I am up for pretty much anything, and just want to have fun and enjoy the company of intelligent and attractive women.