It's pretty hard to know what I should write here. The tendency is to write either about things that I would want women to be attracted to me for or about things that I find attractive in women. Neither of these approaches will necessarily lead me to highlight the things that women would actually be attracted to me for. If I write a specific wish list with what I'm looking for I risk hurting the feelings of people who don't have these characteristics. It's probably better to start a conversation and you can ask me questions or drop hints.
I tried to update my profile and it said that I have to say how "ambitious" I am. What an odd question. If you meet me you can be the judge of that.
...OK maybe I should give some more information...My apologies if I cause any offence...
I don't own a TV and it would be nice to find somebody who doesn't do too much of that, although I don't mind watching a show or two or a movie in social settings now and then. I said that I drink "socially", but actually I can't remember the last time I got drunk. One or two quality beers with dinner can be nice though (no Budweiser or Lucky).
So far Plenty of Fish has helped me to enhance my conversational skills, but it can get a bit exhausting if it is one sided and I have to always be thinking of things to say. If I get some messages going with you, please answer my questions.
I'm looking for somebody fluent in at least one language (not something that you can take for granted these days).
People generally think that I am very calm or composed, but I can get riled up now and then. People that I have professional relationships with or who I don't have anything in common with think that I am very quiet, but if you get to know me well at all or if we have common interests you will find that this is not the case.
Frequently I don't connect that deeply with people who are anti-spiritual or too into science, but I am far from irrational or dogmatic and I enjoy reading about scientific topics. My politics tend to be more libertarian these days, but I find this right/left paradigm or labelling yourself as belong to this or that pre-defined group or subculture fairly irritating and I would like to find somebody more original and authentic.
If you see my profile and think that you might be interested don't hesitate to message me. The search feature only allows me to see a small fraction of users in my area and I find other profiles through other features of the site, such as when you get one of those "so and so wants to meet you" messages.
Making fun of the site is always a good conversation starter...Strange how everybody on here is super outdoorsy, yet they seem to be logged on/ checking email at any random time of the day or night. Terribly sorry, but I don't hunt, fish, or 4x4 and I don't have any tatoos. I'm not necessarily opposed to three out of those four (although I would find the same woman more attractive with no tatoos vs. many tatoos), but 4x4ing seems pretty obnoxious to me.
I find that I have more success on here the less I write, so maybe I am sabotaging myself. Maybe I come of as being too cynical, pretentious, and judgemental in writing. People who know me personally say that I am very sweet.