As my match is very hard to find (maybe she is very shy and is still living with her parents), if you happen to know her, I'd appreciate you showing her my profile.
If you or someone you know is compatible with an old-fashioned conservative and atheist, maybe is shy (extremely shy is welcome), wants a quiet at-home life as a housewife (not into traveling), has never had children and doesn't need them in the future, is a non-smoker (never has, never will!), doesn't consume much alcohol, would enjoy watching anime cuddled up with me and enjoys anime music, then please read on for the details. Physically I am attracted to girls who are cute, on the thinner side, and younger (a much younger adult is welcome).
Even though I feel the above is needed for compatibility, I am also much more flexible on some other parameters than most people, such as education (I wouldn't hold it against her even if she wasn't able to complete high school), intelligence (she doesn't have to be real smart), if she doesn't have any housewife skills (I'll teach her what bit I know), she can be extremely shy and more dependent and innocent and inexperienced, I have no preference for hair and eye color, and even though I prefer a shorter girl I can accept a taller one. Maybe there is a shy sheltered girl still living with her parents as an adult who would be a good match for me? I hope there is a match out there for me and that we can find each other.
I now believe my best match is probably a girl who is very (or even crippling) shy, who is unable to support herself and live on her own so is still living with her parents in limbo as a young adult (so at least 18). Even though shyness is not a requirement so if a more normal girl is a match for me she is welcome to contact me, I am realizing that normal girls just aren't interested in me (and maybe not even compatible). But maybe this shy girl would be interested in being my housewife with a nice quiet life instead so she could at least have a relationship too. And since I am not looking for children, this would be a very easy life for her (maybe this is all she can handle?). Maybe her shyness is too much for other guys, so they don't want her (or are incompatible). If she can overlook our age difference (as a girl closer to my age just doesn't seem like a good candidate), maybe I would be a good choice for her if we are a match. She doesn't have to be a strong independent woman as so many seem to try and force on her in society. So if she is very dependent and not as mature and more innocent, I am more open minded with this. Maybe together we can do a bit more stuff away from home than we would otherwise do alone, as maybe she would feel safe enough with me to try things (but still do this less than some others do). If she is so shy she cannot drive or do her shopping alone, I am much more open to going with her. Maybe she even dropped out of high school due to her shyness, which is a major deal breaker for many who I have seen requiring college degrees and up to even talk to them, but I am more open to this too. So hopefully someone reading this knows such a girl who matches who I am looking for and would like to help us find each other (and such a girl isn't advertising herself and probably doesn't even think someone would want her so isn't looking either - even though she may be a lump of coal to other guys, maybe she could be a diamond to me).
I am looking for a girlfriend who hopefully we will both fall deeply in love together and want to be together forever. She needs to be ready to settle down and wants a quiet life with me.
I am especially attracted to a girl who is cute, shy, younger than me, and on the thinner side. I am not putting any lower limit on her age (as long as she is an adult of course). I believe I would even be compatible with a very shy girl, even to the point she is still stuck living at home with her parents as an adult and is not someone who wants to support herself out in the world. Maybe she would prefer to be my housewife instead. At the same time, there may be a non-shy girl who is a good match for me too. Note that she doesn't have to look like a glamorous movie star and that a very shy girl may not even realize that she is cute (and beauty is in the eye of the beholder...). And even being on the thinner side also adds to her cuteness to me.
If I am not your type, but you happen to know of someone who would be a good match, please help her find me. And if she is very shy, she also might need help with this. Thanks!
I believe a girl younger than I am would work better for me as I need to be attracted to her both physically and personality-wise/values-wise. In addition to outer beauty, inner beauty and compatibility are very important too. If either is missing, I just don't think I could fall in real love as there needs to be that spark. And she needs to see whatever in me that she needs.
Being younger she is more likely to be more innocent and inexperienced at relationships, which would match me better too. So we can explore and learn together.
I am a big anime fan and spend a lot of time enjoying this hobby including long marathons. I hope to find a girl who would enjoy cuddling up on the couch doing this with me.
I prefer a more quiet life so would prefer to stay home with my girlfriend as opposed to an active away life-style. I am not into traveling. But maybe we could enjoy an occasional away activity (as this would be more fun as a couple than alone).
My other hobbies are also computers and electronics, but these would be harder hobbies to share with a girlfriend. I like sci-fi and action movies/ tv shows. But in anime, I will watch things I'd never touch in live-action!
I'm settled in life already, and am just missing having a love in my life, so I hope I can find the right girl who we both are a match for each other.
I strongly believe (for me and a girlfriend) in honesty, faithfulness, monogamy, and good values. I'm an old-fashioned and more conservative guy. If you don't like the word "girl", we're probably not a match (my sister doesn't like this :-) ). :-) But as long as our politics won't cause a conflict, it shouldn't matter. I want a loving relationship instead of an argumentative one. I don't like fighting.
I don't smoke (never have, never will!), don't drink alcohol, nor do illegal drugs. I feel very strongly about not smoking, so my girlfriend would also have to feel the same away about never has and never will smoke. I would prefer that she not drink alcohol, but a smaller amount should be OK. I eat meat (though trying to be more healthy, but need some meat in my dinner). She would have to be OK with this and not be afraid of an occasional meal at McDonalds for example.
I am continuing my profile here as I ran out of space above.
I think it would be best if she has never been married. Because I have decided that I don't want children, she must not have had children ever, and does not have to have children in the future.
I am not religious (atheist), but as long as her religion doesn't cause a conflict in our relationship, that should be OK. So maybe she believes, accepts me, but doesn't actively worship.
I'm shorter at 5'3" (I would prefer a shorter girl, but if a taller girl is a good match hopefully this would work too). From my photo, you can see I have a receding hairline and am getting bald on top, so you don't think I'm hiding anything here. I'm not vain about myself, so let me be the one who cares how the other looks... :-) My hair in one of the photos is a record length for me, though I vary from a crewcut to longer. As there is no weight item, I am currently under 145lbs.
I am a frugal person, responsible with money, grown up, and responsible in life.
I am not a sports fan, so no football widow in my house. :-)
I have cats (down to zero now :-( ), and am not interested in dogs or adding other pets.
For music, I like anime soundtrack music (I generally prefer the softer songs sung by females - for example, I really like most of Megumi Hayashibara's anime songs). I also was a big fan of disco when I was younger (and still love it) and am very selective with rock (some groups I just like one song even, and don't always like the more popular songs). If I had to listen to harder rock music, heavy metal, or country, I'd go crazy. :-) I am not someone who listens to music all of the time.
I was lucky being able to retire early, so I have a lot of time available to spend with a girlfriend!
So I hope to find the girl who is just right for me, and in return I am what she is looking for too and would be happy being with me. I want to be able to love and be loved in return. The girl I am looking for is hard to find but hopefully she is out there.
Note: Take the chemistry results with a big grain of salt. Some parts are correct, and others are way off!
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