I am a single mother, full time student, and full time worker. I have a lot of free time! Apparently, I like a challenge.
I am strong-willed(run away), sarcastic(yeah, you know what word you would like to call me), weird(enough said), and have a tendency to be nerdy/lame/socially awkward. Now that you know a little about my personality.....
I don't expect a lot of responses in regards to a relationship, due to what I am about to say, but if you are interested then keep reading.
I do honestly want a relationship, but my life is chaotic and messy. I need someone who wants to be there and go through it with me-as I would do for them. Not duck out as soon as a problem comes up. Life should be fun and great, I agree, but it is hard most of the time. You have to get through the hard times to get to the good ones.
Ideally, I am looking for someone that one day would like to get married. I want a man, not a boy. I want someone who has goals and aspirations for themselves. I want them to be themselves, and not try to be everyone but. I want them to know what they want-me being included in that. So here's the list of what I am looking for in my next relationship.
-Has a job, or is in school at the very least
-Has a car
-Not a drunk or drug addict
-Does not believe in abuse
-Preferably does not live with their parents(I understand, life happens)
-Does not want to date my friends(That is just low)
-Does not want to date everyone else(no players, had enough, I am kind of done)
-Knows what they want(me!)
-Does not want to change me(I am very stubborn, by the way)
-Does not mind piercings and tattoos-maybe even has them( as of now, I have four piercings and one tattoo. I am getting two more piercings and two more tattoos)
-Does not play games(If you want to "see" people, that's awesome for you. I see lots of them, but that doesn't mean I want to date them. Furthermore, if you do not tell me when you want to see me, then you won't. If I make time to see you, and my time is very precious right now, then do me the courtesy or trying to show up. I do have time for someone who is serious, I do not have time for someone who's not.)
-Can think for themselves(I would rather be told I am wrong, then have you agree with me)
-Can communicate(this means, tell me what you need and want. Obviously, try not to be rude, but I will respect you a lot more if you do not make me "read your mind" for answers-you probably won't like what I come up with either)
If you made it this far, then you must not be that scared. Then you should also know, I do not care about appearance, wealth or material things-you can't take them with you. Substance over matter. I want someone who is actually interested in a real relationship. Here's some reasons why I am not a horrible person to date.
-I do not cheat(it is just selfish, and completely takes away the right to choice for the other person)
-I do not look for other options(if I am in a relationship, then my sights are set on that person only)
-I work very hard for the things I want(I have been working since I was 7, also)
-I am dedicated(I will be there if you ask me to-even if it means bringing you soup because you are sick)
-I am honest(Obviously)
-I am loving(I will always ask how your day was, and want to snuggle)
-I believe in an equal relationship(you get what you give)
If you want a relationship with me, then prove it. You will have to work just as hard as I do for that. If not, we can always be friends. Don't say I didn't warn you.