Here's the thing. I'm really looking for someone special. I'm 40 and kinda set I my ways. I know that may sound restrictive, but I guess I'm looking for a woman whom is more interested in getting to know me (as I would her) than getting married and living together. Those concepts are not off the table for me, but definitely not my motivation. I know, I'm not exactly waxing romantic, but I have to be honest and that's what you'll always get with me. Also, I'm an atheist. If you think atheists are the same as devil worshiping heathens, we're probably not on the same page.