There is no way I'm posting anything important about myself here. "Profiles" never do a person with genuinely good intent justice. If you must judge or gauge a person, know them first. I'm here to meet someone decent. Heavy drinking is unacceptable, *drug abuse is not something I'll accept either. Opiated, stimulated or sedated, I have no interest in. Moderate 4:20 is totally cool with me to be clear though. I have two bachelor degrees. I have my own car and my own income. I'm friendly, articulate and kind to those that can take kindness for what it is, not weakness or an opportunity.
Everyone is different. What I want from a first date is for my date to project who they are and strive to be. What you put out there may not be what is most attractive to a person who may be potentially interested. Those that seek out these first date "show offs" thrive and even predate on the phenomenon. i wear my heart on my sleeve. Its time more people did that. With that said, please, no cryptic, enigmatic bs. So, if you know losing interest is part of your character, its possibly why you haven't met someone after X amount of dates. Maybe you get bored because you just want to "see what's out there"? If so, buzz off. I don't expect to find someone systematically after I post this, but I appreciate being given the opportunity to be known and treated civilly, even if we find we aren't compatible. It's healthy to make friends too. All in all, a woman that chooses to employ her abilities of critical thought and that has some tact would be a great start. Knowing your own intentions is key. Cheers and good luck!