Well, what can I say. I was involved in a lousy relationship and am free from it. I wasted a few good years of my life and want to reverse this trend. I am a pretty easy going guy and quiet. I have good job and I am very hard working. Honesty is always the best policy.
Oh yea, I have never done drugs and would prefer someone who does not do them either. There is something about living a clean life that is more attractive than any other option out there.
What do I admire most in a person? Well honesty, openness, financial fidelity, character, respect, kindness and a concern for their fellow is important. We do not live in a bubble and we must lend a hand if capable; this type of person is greater than any socially described bombshell or knockout or "10". If you want a pix I will send you one through another means. I am NOT ugly.
For my first date, I would definitely pick up the lady of my choice and go out to dinner. Afterward I would allow enough time, depending on how conversation went to partake in any number of comfortable options with a person, be it a movie, lounge, park, walk, drive or whatever. I would hope that some mutual decisions could be made during the course of our first "connection" to allow the evening to take its own course.