I would prefer to chat instead of have some outmoded, outdated piece of rushed prose be the first and in many cases, only point of contact. i know i will not be right for everyone, or even most, but i am hoping for that special one, or at least to have someone want to try more than making a snap decision.
i'm a nice guy, i will actually do sweet things and get little presents just because i'm in love, its that simple, honest and straightforward. i don't cheat, i don't get physical and i actually care about someone i am with, if i don't care about you, i wont start anything.
i like honesty, i would rather know a bad truth than wonder about the million other possibilities that could be happening (most of which are ten times worse than the actual truth).
which leads on to me being a realist, with a dark sense of humor and a slightly different take on how things are. a lot of people think that's code for pessimism, and i can see that, but honestly, haters need to jump in a lake.
have a chat, get to know me, if you don't like me that's the way it goes.