bkgriff
Age: 37
Dating
polyphoria: A Different Drummer
About
Non-smoker with Average body type
City
Jersey city, New Jersey
Details
47 year old Man, 5' 10" (178cm), Other Religion
Ethnicity
Caucasian Taurus with Brown hair
Intent
polyphoria Wants to date but nothing serious
Education
Graduate degree
Personality
Profession
computers


dating
2010






I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Cat Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? N/A Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 10 years



About Me
I can be pretty complicated, but the journey is worth it. I enjoy in equal parts solitude and socializing, conversation and quiet time, sunlight and storms, city and country, serious and silly, a day packed full of activity and a night full of cuddling by the fire. Laughter, thoughtfulness, honesty, respect, open-mindedness, curiosity, sensuality, taking your time, and a desire to know yourself and others... are essentials in my book.

I think I am shy, but most people tell me I'm not. The truth is that I'm selective, and prefer not to jump into things too quickly. I open up much more one-on-one with the right person. I enjoy being quietly persuasive and letting someone make up their own mind about me. I am definitely not your average guy; I am not into sports, cars, or TV. I journal, I hike (lower east side or high mountains), I try to stay in touch with myself, and I like to talk about things that matter, but I also like (and need) to laugh, relax, muse, talk to my cats, and not take things too seriously... and I get a little better at that every day. I am spiritual but not religious, though I sympathize pagan, and take an interest (in moderation) in things alternative. Ask me, I'll tell you.

That sounds *so* introspective. I have other sides, too... I enjoy the city a lot, exploring, having a few drinks, hanging out and trading stories. Sometimes you just gotta say WTF.

I am not looking to marry, to find a soul-mate, to move in with someone, or (for the time being) to have an exclusive relationship. I enjoy love, caring, passion, sensuality, sharing, and play, but friendship must come first and be the foundation if anything's to last and have meaning. I believe strongly in openness, honesty, respect, and doing the right thing.

There, I've said my piece. If it interests you, I hope you'll drop me a line.

(Note: my main picture is from July 2010.)

First Date
I enjoy almost anything if I'm enjoying the company. For a first date, though, I do like the chance to converse at leisure... without having to shout or whisper (so most bars are out, as are movies -- those come later!). Dinner and (quiet) drinks works great, but so does a hike (country or city!), the beach, or canoeing. What's your pleasure?


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