Why cant people see someone for who they are? And not judge that person or use them for what they want with no regards of that persons feelings. There are a lot of weird people out there and it is hard for a decent guy when there are so many jerks around.
So a little about me I have a 14yr old son who is living with his mother in Calgary at the moment. Some other things I enjoy doing is cooking, working with cars, playing many games & that doesn't include head games. I also enjoy pool, darts, watching the night sky, taking walks on a beautiful day or just about anything to do with the outdoors. I have taken Civil Engineering Technology, Building Technology, and worked in construction for many years. I believe a true loving relationship begins with honesty (huge), communication (a huge must), and trust (another huge must ) .. most guys, I would say, don't have any of those. All I am looking for is a lady who wants those qualities in a man. I would hope she loves romance, flowers for no reason, and possibly a poem written for her every now and then. Of course we would all love to find our soul mate and I do believe there is someone out there for everyone. When it comes to a relationship I give 100% towards it, while others can be very petty .. there is so much more to life and relationships than who has what and how much. I do not judge anyone before getting to know the person for who they are inside, that is whats most important .. the people who don't are the ones who will never know what true love really means.
A little about the person I would like to find would have many of the same values as I do, who knows what she wants, is also independent, honestly and loyalty are very important as well as communication. Looks do not matter a whole heck of a lot to me as I usually look at what is on the inside of a person, but there has to be some sort of physical attraction there between two people, ideally she would be a bit shorter than I am .. don't like looking way up. Someone who is definitely secure in who she is and what she wants is the most important.
If the person reading this believes in the same then there could definitely be more than a spark. You have to be careful who you give your heart to because so many will stomp on it without a second thought and just throw it around like an old shoe.
Good luck to all out there!!! And thanks for stopping by for a read.
Love should never be controlling and should remain equal through whatever may come ...
Ask and you shall receive ...