to all of the men on here who are cataloging for the perfect woman. open yours eyes. there are no perfect people. and me..i have a disability. i was diagnosed with this in 1981. it is epilepsy. i dont drive and i dont work. however, i have my own money,my own medical insurance. and you men who are too busy to give me a ride, the heck with you. i take cabs where ever i need to go. if you cant handle this..DONT WRITE TO ME!! DONT WASTE MY TIME OR YOURS!! and good luck to all of you fools looking for a perfect woman.