I'm open-minded, creative, kind, multi-faceted, funny, & fun; romantic yet realistic at the same time. I'm also hardwprking & in a way, ambitious. Not ambitious in terms of caring only about money. But ambitious as in achieving goals (eg: writing a book)& generally making a mark on the world, however small (eg: I work for a no-kill animal shelter promoting animal rights.)
I get along with people from all walks of life. My beginnings were humble. I'm a first-generation college student & grad. My father worked in a car factory & my mother worked in dive bars. Neither of them "achieved" anything, yet they were good, decent people & they taught me to value things that really matter: Time--spend as much of it as you can with family & friends, realize you have less of it than you might think, & don't waste it obsessing about stupid sh**.
Guess you could say I'm looking for a male version of myself to get to know and/or date...possibly leading to something long term.
My ideal guy: funny, passionate, genuine, loyal & tough yet tender. Varied interests are a plus. As far as the physical goes, I'm fairly open-minded. I'm not concerned about height or hair/eye color (I generally think the less hair a man has the better!)Build: anywhere on the thin-athletic-average range. While I don't really have a "type" I do have a weakness for nice arms--meaning muscular...not like a bodybuilder, but in a normal way. And I do LUV tattoos...but it's not a dealbreaker if you don't got em.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Have a beer together...or coffee...or hot chocolate...& talk, get to know each other, see if we click. If we do click, then we could eat dinner or listen to music or watch the snow melt--IF there's a connection I'm up for just about anything :)