If you can dig in the sand on the beach for the day and then go out in the evening to an upscale establishment dressed to the nines for some dancing we can have a fantastic day. If you can discuss the impact of the current social environment and it's affect on the family then diverge into a lively conversation on different religious beliefs and spiritually and then finally land into totally dishing about the latest on Survivor or current movie we can relate. If you are self aware and take responsibility for your own actions and choices and can manage to be strong enough to be vulnerable, open, honest, authentic and genuine and take risks then we can really communicate. If you think that the only type of games that should be played between people are; sports, board, or card games then we can play. If you can be strong and not defensive, kind and not passive, assertive and not aggressive, opinionated and not closed minded, vulnerable and not insecure, determined and not stubborn, then we can get along well. If you like to read poetry out loud and listen to Alternative or Hard Rock music we can have fun. If you believe that passion is a path of giving and not an end to itself we can be truly intimate. If your thoughts, feelings, and actions are in sync we can trust each other. If all this is possible we can be limitless. If you can be shallow sometimes and typically male then we can be real because I'm not perfect either so why should you have to be!
Best wishes to all…
I don't know! First dates are more about the people involved than the environment - worst place could be the best date with the right attitudes and the best place could be the worst date with the wrong attitudes. It's all about what you make of it not what you do. Just to help out though - a small Blues club might be nice so long as it's not so loud we can't talk though a Latte from Starbucks and a walk in the park would be great too.
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