Heya ladies I'm Mel, a 29 year old soft butch bbw and aspiring writer/director. If you NEED somebody with a job, I'm afraid that's not me currently due to this terrible job market but don't take that to mean I'm not working/looking or opposed to going out (currently volunteering for a local non-profit). Improving my life, both social and professional, is my current goal and I'd prefer somebody who understands that. I enjoy a variety of things from a night in with Netflix (or my/your DVD collection) to an evening out at a drag show or whatever. I'm a pretty chill and laid back geek who loves video games and am 420 friendly. Love to laugh, go for walks, people watch and always interested in trying new things! My method of transportation is the bus, so anywhere it takes me I'm willing to go (meaning I don't mind traveling but be considerate).
I'm looking for friends first and foremost but if the chemistry is right I'm very open minded and willing to explore our options (meaning yes I'm dating, emotionally available and looking). Above all I connect best with people who are honest with me and communicate both in words and gestures. Age isn't a big deal but I do prefer women in the 18-40 age range. Geekiness is a plus! Or at least the ability to tolerate geeks cause I hang out with a lot of them lol. If I sound like somebody you're interested in getting to know then hit me up. I really enjoy talking first but if you prefer, texting is fine too (or IMing if you have AIM). Hope to hear from you soon and take care!