I am 56 and have the heart of a big teddy bear. I have 2 adult children and 5 grand kids. I spent most of my days working on things and fixing things around the house. I don't work, I am on disability. Music I like is oldies, all rock n roll, and some country. I don't get into rap or hip hop stuff. I am looking for a female between say 40 and 55 years old, for a serious relationship, but friends and dating first is always good. I like to go out to the bar about 2 times a month. I don't want a drama queen, they are not attractive at all.