Proper southern dude here looking for a mate who is into surfing, snowboarding and cars. I am very active and pursue many interests and looking to date a man over the age of 30 who likes the outdoors, not afraid of his feelings (HA!) and not into playing games...if one exists.
***Guys if you are not within 10-15 minutes away from LA/Hwood/WeHo/SM/SFV please don't hit me up for a date. I'm sure you're right nice n all but I just prefer local dudes. I won't travel myself outside these areas and it wouldn't be fair or gentlemanly for me to expect you to do all the travel. Also, my general preference for dating are white/latin dudes, especially the blond, surfer dudes like me. I'm open to others but in all honesty, and I like to keep it real. I get hit up by a lot dudes that aren't my type and I can't answer everyone especially not those in my preference category. I don't want to ignore people and block the ones who are persistent. It seems rude of me. And, to those without a picture or who ask for naked pix from me (and you know who you are) please pass me by. I am ONLY interested in guys who are looking for exclusive dating that can lead to an LTR. I'm not looking for a friend to see where it goes. I wanna dude to be with, live together and be a couple. If you aren't out I'm not interested. I wish you luck in the process but I require someone who is comfortable being out. I am involved with the gay community quite a bit and the entertainment industry. My dude has to be able to want to accompany me to events in both areas and not be worried about it. I hope this all doesn't sound shallow or mean, I just have to draw a line and cut to the chase.
***Age Disclaimer: I am not a full member of this site and when I filled out the profile I selected the wrong year. I haven't figured out how to change it. I just turned 45 so anyone who was mislead my sincere apologizes. I didn't realize until recently and the site says you can't change your birthday after the first two weeks and unfortunately didn't catch it within the time frame because I am not on here regularly.
My first dates are very non-traditional. I meet potential dates for coffee for about an hour. If there is chemistry I will suggest a proper first date that will be something that happens outdoors. I don't do movies on dates because I want to talk to you and not sit in a dark theater, so a first date is most likely to be a long walk on the beach or around a neighborhood or a hike. I don't tolerate guys who text or look at their cell phone when we first meet or into the first few dates. After that I am a little more liberal if it is work related. If I am giving you my valuable time then I expect respect.
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