I take pictures of random stuff and call it art. I say goofy comments and then look at you like you're the crazy one. I love independent & foreign films without those Hollywood happy endings ... the kinds that actually make you think for at least a few minutes after the credits roll. I try to stay away from TV because it tends to distract me from my life ... I sleep with a noise machine because silence is deafening. My favorite city up to this point is San Diego because it just oozes positivity and boasts great weather. I love positive people. I believe my thoughts tend to create my reality, so every day I strive to be a better and more in tune human being than I was the day before. I strive to embody authenticity. I'm growing up, which both scares and excites me at the same time. I am learning to embrace it so I can eventually call my thoughts "pearls of wisdom" to youngsters and have them roll their eyes at me. I'm an outstanding cook, and if you think you are, too, how about an Iron Chef cookoff at my house. It's on. The secret ingredient is ... ? I'm looking for someone who embraces sarcasm as part of their daily life. Someone who doesn't shy away from laughing til her sides hurt and ends up snorting by accident. A woman who knows how to be sexy while also knowing when being a goofball is entirely appropriate and welcomed. Confidence is a must, but perhaps more important is humility where it counts. There's just too much to learn from others to think you already know it all. A positive outlook and great sense of humor is paramount; I can't tell you how important that combo is. I love to go out and dance. I've taken west coast swing, salsa, rumba and cha-cha classes, but have also been known to cut a rug to techno and hip-hop when I'm feeling "clubby." Having an active imagination turns me on. Someone who enjoys making up random sh*tand playing along with me ... there's a special magic to that that can't quite be adequately put into words ... and it's simply a fantastic way to pass the time. Staying young at heart is one of the best excuses for getting old, or at least that's what I tell myself. My woman must love being affectionate ... when you're really into someone how could you not want to get close ... okay, that's enough ... stop smothering me. So I guess to sum that novel up, it's great when you can just be your fun, bubbly, funny, lightheartedly sarcastic, playful self and enjoy life through it all. That's really what it's all about. Oh, and the hokey pokey.