Like most people I've had my fair share of trying times in the past so that moving forward is the only direction i know. I decided to stop drinking years ago so i could enjoy life with clarity but I still enjoy a night out with the best of them. I love life and surround myself with positive people. The history, heritage and countryside that surrounds me i find inspirational and fascinating.
I feel that i am on an exciting journey and i have experienced lot of what life can throw at you and i have overcome them and then learned from, i am looking for someone to join me on a journey, a future together.
I really enjoy days out, galleries, museums, castles, the beach, and interesting holidays to places not often visited or with great history. I'm as happy camping as staying in plush hotels. My Job is a great passion and i love working in the environment, helping people overcome and battle with addiction and their traumatic emotional problems...i spend a lot of time listening and helping people get their lives back on track. I'm very good at my job and that's not me having a big ego just the personal satisfaction i experience of a job well done. I have no concerns about hiding my feelings or saying what's going on for me.....i find its healthy and cuts through the bullsh*t that can cause unnecessary arguments in a relationship.
I love to be creative as it allows me to express who i am, so i enjoy photography, painting/drawing and and any medium that lets me get my hands dirty. So I'm quite a tactile kind of guy, I enjoy closeness and intimacy both emotionally and physically.
I'm a Bohemian at heart and i love things that stimulate my imagination in everything from books and plays to films, my friends are similar to me and I'm looking for a partner with the same outlook and interests. I've settled for second best and made accommodations for ex partners , but not any more i want my soul mate, the one, the woman that is just right on every level, independent, strong, sincere, honest, funny, intelligent, imaginative and open to new ideas. Most of all I want to meet someone who likes to laugh and enjoy life.
In return i will offer you everything i possibly can, a relationship should be unconditional and honest but ultimately a pleasure to be in.
I don't want anyone to complete me or fix me...I'm not broken....I'm looking for someone to compliment what i already have and together be more than the sum of our parts.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
My perfect date would be a midnight picnic at the height of summer, laying around a campfire holding each other, getting lost in the moment staring at the stars, feeling like nothing else exists but us. Hours pass and slowly, as dawn breaks, the morning sun warms us from head to toe..............................or we could just go for a brew