Ive asked my.close friends to describe me after they got done talking so much sh*t
I got responses like caring, creative, confusing, giving, hates arguments and fighting
really funny confident "freakishly smart like i could plan a heist and maybe pull it off".
Selfless and of course cause im a guy and most of the people i asked were girls im also an ***hole sometimes
But be fair at least i admit im not in touch wth my inner woman. Or that im not uber sensitive.
Only thing I'm sensitive or passionate about is the abuse or mistreatment of pets and children.
SO if i do something that you think is an ahole move realize that i dont know better or that Im selectively Dyslexic
and might need to wear glasses
Honestly I'm usually just telling the truth when i get called an ass.
Im on here for friends but would like to be in a serious and commited relationship
Send me a message with a Hi if thats all you can say at first
worse thing i hate hearing is i use to have this huge crush on you like 5 years ago and never said anything
that just makes the younger me cry a little
I travel alot for work im usually in Florida working at a software company that makes internet games for sweepstakes
but for a while ill be in Colorado and if i find a reason to stay ill stay
but i try and fly back to California every few months
I love meeting new people. Looking for nice or church girl to date
I usually fall for the girl that needs direction in life
I help motivate and push them to set some real goals,
until pretty soon their back on track and they leave without a word
usually a month later i get a call saying they couldn't break things off cause they feel ****ed up
since i was a great BF but now that they have a new start they want to see whats out there.
so if thats you dont reply cause ill make you look and feel effin amazing about yourself BUT
it'll suck for me, Message if you already seen whats out there and are over it.
i got plenty of people wanting to take a refresher course i don't need to add one more to that list
Im hoping for something long term
i need some one who is happy with who they are and has something to give back in conversation:)
motivated, loves to laugh(dark humor is preffered)
SO I wrote this back in 2005 when i was just starting college and i havent changed a single thing only to illustrate that some things i wanted then I still know i want now. And It sucks to say but me back then, had a better way with words. And blunt honesty borderline **** ,,,,SO Enjoy!! or dont
student working developer went to school as a computer networks and security engineer i fly all over the us but mainly in pomona or ontario
i like challenges meeting new people discussing points of views. im easy to get along with I find interset in almost anything and i actually like being in the worse situations i dont worry about little things and sick as it sounds i like to see other people flip out over the smallest and unimportant things
looking for a nice girl who is true to herself
really looking for someone that i can talk to
and not get a glazed look. i been on to many dates with people
who find me funny quick and interesting and just easy to talk to
but as the days go by i realize that they all tend to be perpetually
15yrs old they cant do a single thing without direct supervision
im not stupid and i wouldnt say im a effin genuis but i make
an effort to learn something quick if i dont know it
i dont continue doing something and pretending to know risking
health, property, and those around me, not everything will
be as pertinent but making the same mistakes and choosing not to do anything about it makes me loath a person
i dont want to waste my time and i dont want to waste yours
generally i look for someone who can take in thier settings no matter where they are. They dont start having a conversation on the phone in line at the super market and completely ignore the checker and just continue going on and on about something that can wait
I always look for someone who has patience can show mercy and judge accordingly..
what i avoid is people who constantlly need something to happen and cant sit still it makes me uneasy
they tend to have a lack of interest in the world they live in
they lack experience and maturity.
2 dimensional just a mirror image of the people they cling to
your likes are my likes
your views are my views
your an empty shell
building a list in your head of likes dislikes facts numbers and important dates just to keep up this lie that you belong
in reality your lost not fitting in because your someone else
and should really be somewhere else
In the day time Lets Just pick a spot and lets meet up somewhere for lunch or to talk within a few mins we both should know if thats as far as it needs to go. Then at night we can go from there to a few dive bars that i know usually social D or some other great alt rock or rockabilly hit playing in the background not to loud where i gotta yell in your ear and not so packed where we gotta stand by the restroom wall just to get some space. I usually dont drink but this seems like a special occasion but really It doesnt need to be so complicated on a first date i wanna get to know you better and clear the air of that nervous first meet and greet. Ive never really have had a bad first date a good friend or a great relationship always happens. Hopefulky i didnt just.jinx myself