Dating is hard, especially first dates. I would definately have to say that talking and getting to know one another is top on my list. We have a great waterfront to sit and chat at or even coffee shops. Lets be realistic here we all work very hard for our money, and god knows its harder to stretch a dollar these days, so i won't put down a whole lot of mushy stuff about going for a candle light dinner or anything like that. If things click there's plenty of time for that later. Boy sure hope im not being too forward, but thats me!!!!