Im all about the mission. Find a new goal and achieve it. then put it on the shelf and begin a new one. Im on a mission, constantly. The good thing is that life is never boring or the same for me. the dicicpline is that alot of good friends and places are left behind to chase something else.
It depends. walk around my neighborhood, or hers. sometimes we don't even get to do that before sex happens. I will ask her what she really should be doing this week but just wont get around to and we'll do that. (that's always a smash hit by the way). and if she has nothing and sex doesnt happen than i ask her if she would tag along while i handle my business. If the attraction is there than it doesnt matter what we do even if it is lame or boring.