I wouldn't message me if I were you. Unless your name is Zelda, and your a caligraphy enthusiast, with a slight overbite, and hair the color of
Well, Lets see here.
The name is Mark, and I'm another busy, unsure folk, treading water is glorious lake of life (can you tell I'm trying not to make a 'fish' referance? good this means you may have an unusual inner monologue, which is a good start!)
Somewhere up there it says that I'm trying to "date, but nothing serious". While this isn't necessarily unaccurate, it is still too specific in it's vagueness(turns out that's possible!); as I don't want corner myself in terms of what I want.
Care for a metaphor?
If you have ever been in a grocery store, and found whatever it is you went in there for...yet found yourself walking up and down isles for no real reason...
Not looking for a purpose, just looking.
Well, that's the best I can do to describe what I'm doing on here. People, experiences, events, things.
I Work a lot, 40-60 hours a week most of the time. When I say I want to hang out, I honestly do want to, but the job tends to mess up those plans... plus I enjoy a nice day by myself as much as anyone; As well, I can and will make time for you if you want me to, but to be fair, I have to feel that you want me to do that. I don't have as much spare time as I'd like, but what I have I'd love to spend with someone who gets my attention, weather it be purposely, or not.
*sigh* I feel the need to state some obvious, yet not so obvious things.
I'm a big guy, bit of a fatty if you will....loud as well, tis my nature. Hell, it's part of my charm...so if the big loud guy isn't your cup o' tea....then it's time you stir'd that tea! I'm basicly an overweight sarastic **stard who also hates talking on the phone (not because of you, because of the phone, phones are evil, ask me to eliborate). Oh yeah ladies, you want some of this (gag!)
This also means I don't text. I can't believe this has become a dealbreaker with some people, but apparently it matters... I just haven't gotten into the whole 'superphone' phenomenon. I have a cell phone, I use it to make phone calls...that's it!
I'm not trying to **** you.
Look, easy lays are out there for everyone, plus I have a bunch of hang-ups that tend to come along with anyone willing to make a pof account...so we'll be going through that bs long before the "I accidentally grab'd ya while trying to get at my coffee" routine.
We still cool? cool
P.S. I also legitamitly use this site to talk to/make friends with/meet and chill with anyone, so if you think I'm some ugly douche, or you're gay, or you just plain don't need more penis in your life it's all good! I'm good friend material as well. Same goes if I added you to my favorites before messaging...I just think you're cool, but can't think of something witty at the time.
But yes, more on topic a good night out is:
At a bar listening to some kickin' jams usually surrounded by good people having good times; More for the good times than anything else. I'll admit that going to movies doesn't strike me as a good idea, as all you get to know about the other person is whether or not they liked the movie you just saw.
I should lie and say I like to get out to fancy clubs and mack on all the ladies.....
but we both know thats not true, and in fact, anyone who's main interest is along the lines of "goin' clubbin" Probably won't get along with me.