What I like about me is not necessarly what other people like about me. Which is fine for me. I must be doing something right. I like to talk but more important, I like to listen. People are interesting and if given a chance, so are their stories. I love music, all types and also play a number of instruments. I'm a fan of good movies and have been caught reading a book. I owned a catering company and still cook up a storm although there are times I've been caught with a Big Mac on my breath. I crave the feeling of being wanted. Wanting someone back is just an extra bonus. I'm a little forgetful, a little proud and sometimes stuborn, but then again, I'm just a man.
Dating is tough enough and the computer makes it even tougher. I like to ask the person how comfortable she feels and if she would like to meet in the afternoon for coffee or lunch and talk. The other option is to go for it and have a wonderful dinner and a see what comes next sort-a-thing. Either way there may be chemistry. The meeting is not the most important thing. For me it's the "I want to see her again," feeling.
The second date is something to write about.