gotmyhemi: I have no clue. ...
Occasional smoker with Average body type
Calgary, Alberta
48 year old Man, 5' 9" (175cm), Non-Religious
Caucasian Taurus with Mixed color hair
gotmyhemi is actively seeking a relationship
Associates degree
Sales and Finance Manager

3 month old lion cub

I am Seeking a Woman For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Me
Rule 1. If you do not have a picture posted I will not respond

I am not one who spends a great deal of time with self promotion. so below is my attempt at a description...

I am an outgoing professional male. I am intelligent, articulate, patient and understanding. I am considered attractive, fit, and very kind and responsible. I am considered honest, trustworthy and someone who can be relied upon. I have a sense of humor, which can be razor sharp. If sarcasm is an art, then I am an artist. I do possess enough common sense to know when not to use it. I get along best with intelligent, independent women who have a great sense of humor. I have opted to not take things a seriously as I used to. There is nothing attractive about being miserable, and will not be guilty of it. Like most of us, I have made my mistakes, learned from them, will make more, will learn from them. The bad, the good, the ugly have made me who I am. I am grateful for all of it. No regrets, one exception, and choose to smile even when snowing in April.

If, when reading this profile, you smile, you think, have a positive impression, write me, you never know, I just may write back.

I have chosen to be someone who looks for a reason to include someone rather than what appears to be the norm here. Far to many have long laundry lists of what qualities etc a person needs in order to contact someone. Here is the newsflash, we are all here for the same reason. It is not that we are looking for that special someone, although that is true. We are here because we have all failed in our previous relationships. Yes I said that. So look at your laundry list, and if all the people you have dated fit your laundry list, its time for a new list.

Here is the we. We are better together than apart. We want to improve ourselves because we are worth it. We want to spend more time enjoying the simple things in life, as they often prove to be the most rewarding. We want to look forward to whats ahead, enjoy today and not dwell on the past.

In my spare time, I enjoy the outdoors regardless of season, as my interests are as diverse as the seasons themselves. In summer I love to golf, and be warned, I shoot in the low 70's on a regular basis, so watch what you wager on... In the winter, heading to Sunshine for a day of skiing is always a good idea.

My only suggestion to the lovely ladies out there who are about to become owners of 30 cats or more, just send me a message, perhaps I will be the one who will surprise you.

I do look forward to meeting with you and if you choose to contact me, a picture would be appreciated. For those who wish to have a pen pal or email buddy, please do not waste my time or yours. I am serious about meeting someone, and expect the same in return.

I make every effort to reply to any message sent to me, but in the event that I do not, please accept my apologies and good luck to all.

Things that are not important:

The car you drive

Where you live

Your age

How tall you are

how short you are

Your religious beliefs or lack thereof

Things that are important:

Honesty, trust, a smile, forgiveness, second third or more chances, laughter, a great attitude.

Things I am not good at:

Reading minds

I have no idea about the signs that someone is interested. You will have to tell me.


Why, if asked asked about a trip taken as demonstrated by the photo's they have posted, would anyone answer "I am not a travel agent" I guess that is offensive or something

Have you looked at your matches and thought are you kidding me.

What you see is what you get, I certainly hope we are much more than what is seen

Spelling, the words underlined in red, right click and voila, they are corrected.

What is with the blurry photo's. How many bad cameras are left.

Apparently it is very important to take photo's in the crapper. geez, those professional photographers are wasting so much time looking for great nature area, all they need is a toilet.

Pictures, please have a picture of you, not thirty friends. This is about you not your friends. Also, if looking for a great guy who is kindhearted, honest and not just looking for a quick roll in the hay, Show pictures focusing on your face, not your boobs and ass.

Pictures addendum. If you have not got a picture why are you on here. Go back to your husband or boyfriend. If you have a job that would be put in jeopardy by being on here, get off here.

Prefer not to say... Busted

Testimonials. Why would anyone offer a testimonial. He is a really nice guy, not nice enough for me but maybe you can put up with him. Too funny

What is with the gifts. Imagine the real life version. Hey sweetie, here is a fake gift, after all is it not the thought that counts.

Looking for a man with a sense of humour. Hey we are all on this site looking for love. By definition we all have a sense of humour, or perhaps we are just insane.

By the way the definition of insanity. Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

Common Sense, the least common of all senses

What is with all the dating sites advertising on this dating site, am I to assume that this one is not good and should try the Busty Russians site

I have found prostitutes on this site. I did not think it was possible, but I was wrong. I wonder if they do good business?

If you are not interested, just say so. My time and yours is too valuable to waste.

If you are too busy to date, get off here. Do yourself and the rest of us a favor.

If you live with your ex, perhaps counseling is in order, not dating.


No photos Married or otherwise involved with someone

Daytime calls only Married

Text Messages only Married

Last minute cancellations Married

Friendship First Not ready to be in a relationship

Career Oriented No time for anyone in their life

If a woman cancels a date it is because she has too. If a man cancels a date it is because he has two.

Suggest more if you wish, just what I have learned

First Date
The idea is to meet, talk and with luck, connect. Does it really matter where? I would suggest that Tim Horton's is not an ideal location

Warning, I am not good at dating. More importantly I do not want to be. To be great at it one has to do it way too much.

Gifts Received

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Age between 35 and 54.
Live within 75 miles.