I am a man who is looking for a loving relationship. I want to be able to give my mate tenderness, gentleness and understanding. Looking for someone who is willing to love me back and make me feel special. Also want a women who is able to accept my children. They are ages 13, 10 and 3. Looking for a second chance with a wonderful women who can see me for the wonderful individual I am. My goals are to finish college, complete my military career and constantly learn to grow within myself and never give up. Individual must be willing to travel because of my military status. I don't want anyone who is always negative and reflects on the past all the time. I want a women who can be intimate with me and not judge me all the time. Conflict is a good thing in a relationship. It allows the individuals to grow and learn about one another. Hopefully I can meet a women who looks at inner beauty more then the outer skin. I want to feel attracted to an individual and she don't have to be drop dead gorgeous. I love individuals for who they are not what they are. I want a women who is career orientied but not to the point where she puts that first in her life.